pochiray Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 i started dating a chinese girl since last 2 weeks. she moved to my city last November. we hangout and kiss pretty much everyday after we work or weekend. i started confused till last night's conversation.i know she still love and miss her bf who lives in china. she still keep their picture in her wallet and computer.(That way, when I pretended, i wouldn't be ignorant about it. I wanted my pretending to be as exact as possible, because i love her.) candidly, she told me that she still talke to her bf who live in china on phone everyday. she was really love him. i know she cannot forget her bf in a short period of time. she said :"i would find a guy who l love before. but, i change my mind right now, i will find a guy who love me more." am i a buoy? at least she said:"im giving you a chance right now. if not, i won't seat in your car and kiss you.i still need more time" she remined me twice dat she isnt my gf yet becuase i never sent her any flowers and said anythin to her(like be my girl....etc.) i decided to buy her 99 pink rose tomorrow and i already drew her a pic. i was confused that sendin her 99 roses is going too fast or not?. should we slow down. what can i do right now? help here is da pic i drew
Geishawhelk Posted December 3, 2008 Posted December 3, 2008 Well now, I can only give you the kind of opinion I would give anyone, but you decide. If she is going to be with you, she has to be honest with her BF and break up. Imagine if you were the boyfriend.... she would be cheating on YOU. So if she wants to date you, it's better for her to be honest with him. You have a choice then: Break up with her, because she has a BF. Or: Say that if she dates you, she must break up with her BF - and make sure she does. OR: Carry on dating her, let her carry on with her BF, but be aware that you are number 2. Her heart was his, and will be until she breaks up with him. If you are willing to play this way, then you have to understand that someone will get hurt. That someone is most likely to be you.
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