vince1128 Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 So for those that don't remember my numerous threads about this girl, We've been kissing for a month now and I've been confused as to what she wants with me. So I've kinda been turning the tables on her ( waiting to return phone calls and txt msgs, etc...) and this morning I decided to txt her saying goodmorning friend and when I saw her in between classes i acted normal likewe were in a relationship and as soon as I got to class she sent me a txt meant To go to someone else. It said, "ok so ithough that vincent thoughtwe were just friends but idk anymore. William what do I do?" So I asked her about it at lunch and she said shewanted to talk about about where we were. Yesterday I suggested a date on saturdAy and she said yes and todayshe was saying that's why she wanted to go on the date so we could talk aboutit. She has been having some home issues( moms gettingvery sick again) and she has been so busy I was afraid that was gonna be an excuse. She said I really like you, no look me in the eyes I really like you but right now I have so much going on and I don't want to lead u on and half of me wants to be with you but that's why I wanna talkabout it. Then this morning u said we were just friends and I said no were more then just friends. So were going to talk about it but I need advice onwhat to say I really like this girl And I've invested so much into this I don't want it to end. What can I say? How we have a strong enough connection were nothing would change if we were in a relationship? Thanks for reading this mess I typed it from my iPhone lol
Zagggon Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 well first off you have got to be more important a person to confide in in HER mind than this "William" guy.... I mean man, if she is talking to "William" about YOU, the guy who she is WITH for a month.....what the hell does that say about this relationship that she would rather talk about you and her with "William" over YOU.... you need to convey that you are willing to work with her, also if at all possible, try to become the person she talks to about things, not this "William", someone who could potentially tell her to dump you...
Author vince1128 Posted December 2, 2008 Author Posted December 2, 2008 to be fair William is her bff since birth who dates her best girl friend I'm of worried about him
Zagggon Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 well you should be worried, that means he has tons of support/trust with her and prolly could easily topple you if he wanted to do so in her mind. Anyways tho you have to become the one she talks to, not some other guy, even if she has been his friend/gf a long time. Gotta be honest, that sounds real iffy with that william guy, sounds like he and her have some untold bond that needs to be severed, and you can be the one to do the cutting
Author vince1128 Posted December 2, 2008 Author Posted December 2, 2008 Noo William and her have never had anything and won't. But she does trust him but were good friends and he doesn't talk crap about me
confused_2008 Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 Did it ever occur to you she really did mean to send that text to you? I guess your names would be close in her phone but it might have been her way of breaking the ice about the subject. That doesn't answer your question but it might put these suspicions about William to rest.
Author vince1128 Posted December 2, 2008 Author Posted December 2, 2008 No but will told me he asked whAt the deal was with us 10 minutes before we saw eachother and she sent the text
Author vince1128 Posted December 3, 2008 Author Posted December 3, 2008 If i convey that i will work with her, in what sense? giving her time, etc? anything else I can try?
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