cherryade Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 Questions going round and round in my head: How could you hurt someone so much? Especially when they loved you and you loved them (once upon a time)? Why would you get with someone you knew was perfectly capable of cheating cos that's how they got with you? If you truely cared about them how could you let them cheat on their partner? If you didn't care about them, wouldn't you wait until they'd dumped their partner just so you didn't look like a complete bitch? How can you book a holiday together the day before cheating and breaking up? How can you even cheat? WTF does "it's complicated" mean as a relationship status on Facebook? Why am I obsessed with Facebook? Why do I even care because he's obviously not worth it? Why is everything I do aimed at trying to get him back? Does he miss me? Does he even think about me? Is it all as easy as it looks? How can you go from talking to someone nearly everyday for 4 years to not talking to them at all? How can you be planning years ahead with someone only a few days before ditching them? How could I have been so stupid to think that I'd actually found "the one"? Sorry, I just needed to vent.
alwayssme Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 the cold side of life we didnt know untill we got our hearts broken i guess...
JooLee Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 i used to think about that..it was on replay all the time but i stopped when i decided i dont need to be feeling like this and i dont need to be thinking these things. think about what u can do to improve your life and yourself without depending on anyone. the emptiness gets to u sometimes but understand that it is only normal and as fast as it comes, it will go as well... im sorry yr going through a hard time. live your life. dont put it on hold. you have to realise that its time to start a new book.
Cub Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 This is how the world works. Reality is rather unremarkable, wouldn't you say?
Surfer Dude Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 Let's face it, people are selfish scumbags, that should provide answers to most of your questions. They see only their own needs, can't see past themselves and have no empathy and compassion for people they spent years with. They have no compassion because never truly loved us, they loved themselves and their egos. They just used us and our relationships to boost their self worth or to gain something they needed at the time. Selfishness is the main problem in most relationships nowadays.
Crazy.S Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 I think once the "fantasy" we create are over. We start to see how really things were going. We failed to notice before, because we hoping that things would be fine.
Author cherryade Posted December 2, 2008 Author Posted December 2, 2008 AND... Is he sorry? Will he ever be? I need to stop this. He's not who I thought he was, so why am I still chasing it? He chose her. Get over it. ARGH
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