Darryl Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 Hello Every day the feeling of being alone seems to get stronger espeacialy at this time of the year, when I am at home there is now one I feel I can talk to or trust, I always feel unconfartable at home like I don't belong there. I dont know what I am doing here, is it worth it
whichwayisup Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 What makes you feel uncomfortable at home and that you don't belong? Keep in mind, this time of year many people (myself included) get into a certain funk due to the winter. Stick around this place, there are alot of folks here who can help you, listen to you and make you feel better.
2sure Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 If you are not comfortable in your home, and do not feel like you have anyone to communicate with....is it possible that you are not right now, feeling comfortable in your own skin? I ask this specifically because I think that feeling is different than depression, and also not quite like lonliness. And not the same as not liking yourself. When we are not comfortable in our skin, we either dont know ourselves well because there has been a change or we are changing...or we envision ourselves differently than we currently are. Change is happening, needed, or approaching.
Author Darryl Posted December 5, 2008 Author Posted December 5, 2008 What makes you feel uncomfortable at home and that you don't belong? Keep in mind, this time of year many people (myself included) get into a certain funk due to the winter. Stick around this place, there are alot of folks here who can help you, listen to you and make you feel better. The reason i feel unconfortable at home is becouse, all my life people at home have tried to drag me down, and feel i have to be on guard all the time. Thanks for your message,
diggy Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 What do you mean you feel alone? You want a girlfriend? There are two things you can do: 1 - sit at home and sulk, and feel miserable. 2 - Decide you are going to go for what you want, and buy a pickup/dating guide, study it, and go out every night of the week and approach tens of attractive women until you get good enough that you can take one home or get one to date you! Yes it seems scary, but face your fears, and the reward is awesome. Check out my link below to get to my site, where one of the things Ive done is written an ebook on my journey of how to get better with women and be able to go out and get some interaction with an attractive girl every time! good luck man:)
tidalwave Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 The reason i feel unconfortable at home is becouse, all my life people at home have tried to drag me down, and feel i have to be on guard all the time. Thanks for your message, i totally understand that. i have read a lot about this and one thing that rings true is that family will bring you down quicker than anyone else. they do not want you to succeed, better yourself, or change. its not that they dont love you, people just have a natural fear of change and they feel like you might do better and forget about them or leave them behind. they might see good qualities in you that they wish they had but know they never will have which causes resentment. i feel the same way as you do but i just try to find things that make me happy and stick with those. i find people that make me happy and talk mostly to them, hang around mostly them. i find strength in my children as well. you have to find things that make you happy and cling to them for dear life... sometimes thats the only thing you can do.
Ross PK Posted December 17, 2008 Posted December 17, 2008 The reason i feel unconfortable at home is becouse, all my life people at home have tried to drag me down, and feel i have to be on guard all the time. Thanks for your message, Sounds like you either need to talk to them and explain the situation, and ask them to stop. Or move out and get your own place. Having negative people in your life, especially if you're always surrounded by them, can't be good for anyone, they just bring you down with them. And obviously, surrounding yourself with more genuine nice positive people, will have the opposite effect. It's something you could work towards.
georgehutton Posted December 19, 2008 Posted December 19, 2008 Do you have to be at home when you are not supposed to be doing stuff? Like hang out at the library or starbucks or something. Maybe treat home as just the place you eat and sleep? many people have hangouts, if you start haning out regularly, you might make some friends outside the house. Try it for a few weeks and see what happens.
sared Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 talk to your love ones and tell them how you feel.
pinkie_fille Posted February 1, 2009 Posted February 1, 2009 hmm. I feel alone too. I feel uncomfortable when i am at work (sometimes at home) Maybe we can talk to each other.
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