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TOO many years to type, since 2003..

 

I was married when I met him but going thru a divorce...

 

I LOVE this man. We were tight for years and then, (its always been a LDR and very romantice) in the end of 05, an EMAIL saying "I love you,..I can't"...so the last three years have been off/on/off...the miles and nothing has changed..I can't move and now...he won't wait. He has a GF he cheats on..with me, usually, when I am in town. I am in town now. He knows. NOTHING. Last thing was a short email ( not reading into things, but sweet) on Thanksgiving. I am close with the ex wife and kids; I even at the last minute took one of the kids to the dr. to day (both came with) and just the kids and i went to dinner. they do not like current GF ( he has known her almost 3 years--and up until this year, it was never a relationship..he has always cheated on her...)..I cannot seem to get over him. The kids are glad we are over (they say I am too good), his ex wife, my kids and ALL of my friends and family ( even my ex hub).I am a bright, articulate, professional. So is he. I am really not moving on. I get the "feel" still, that I am the "one". I would marry him tomorrow--he won't ask, cause I won't move and can't for another year and a half...and maybe I am too good for him. I still cannot get over him. If I were in my teens or twenties..I am mid 40's! I last saw him two weeks ago this WED...as I said, he knows I am in town..NO WORD...nothing...so.. I could use some interpretation...(he goes months cold as do I...its too hard), but I know there is something still there..I am positive...and I would stake my 42" plasma TV on it! And I am pretty sure he still thinks of me..often..even when he is silent...and what is up with that? My ex hub does it to this woman that he adores. Help!

 

Insight and thoughts would be greatly appreciated!

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