moonmoon Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 I want to hear anybody thats ever had to go NC (especially if you were the dumpee) and never heard from the ex again? How long has it been since then?
Gere51 Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 Yes, I went NC over a year ago and have heard nothing. After my most recent breakup I went NC, and she figured it out two weeks later. That was the first of August and I have heard nothing. Don't want to either.
IcemanJB Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 I'm the dumpee and tried not talking to her after the breakup, but she constantly texted me and wanted to meet up to talk. I don't have it in me to not say anything since she isn't a bad person. Finally about a week ago I told her to stop contacting me, and she said she totally understands. Haven't heard from her since....still healing. It really helped me to tell her that I didn't want contact. The only way I would just do it without saying anything would be if she had cheated or something awful like that.
Gere51 Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 I don't get the "let's talk" thing after the breakup. That happened to me and I refused to say anything to her. What's there to talk about? Justifying the breakup? This is something I simply don't understand.
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