Dlyrica Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 My boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago. I posted a topic about it elsewhere. Anyways I feel like I'm losing my mind! He's been acting pretty sad and miserable but I have mostly been trying to keep myself happy while at the same time not causing him unnecessary grief. Well anyways, over the past two weeks I have been talking to one of my ex boyfriends from like..I dont know five years ago. The relationship we had back then was about as serious as it could be at that age but we didnt sleep together or anything. Anyways, we ended up hanging out over Thanksgiving break and we ended up fooling around although we didnt sleep together. He is the nicest person ever and has always been a sweetheart to me even when he didnt need to be. I feel like he would do anything for me and I've always felt that way about him. Well, my other most recent exboyfriend has been telling me how horrible he feels and even after I told him I fooled around with the other Ex he still wants to try to make things work. Am I out of my mind? I have already given this guy a thousand chances to prove himself and he hasnt. Why cant I just want to be with someone who I know will treat me right?? HELP!
ashleigh422 Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 I can give you the advice I think you should take.. but I cannot give myself the same advice.. Perhaps your lonely and it would just be easier to get back with the recent ex.. fall right back into the swing of things like nothing ever happened. Best predictor of the future is past behavior... If he treated you bad.. certainly 3 weeks hasn't changed him. ++I have already given this guy a thousand chances to prove himself and he hasnt.+++ AND THERE YOU HAVE IT!!! You didn't need to have anyone answer your questions.. you already did.. HE DIDN't PROVE HIMSELF.. and now you are finally on the path to make yourself happy on your own.. don't give him the benefit of the doubt.. he should have done it when he had the chance!!
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