Theorem Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 I was having an odd day a couple weeks ago and got into a big fight with family etc. so in this very sad state i texted my ex about it all since i was down. First she was supportive, then loving (like aw love ya friend hugs) lol ya. then RIGHT after all this... she sent me a message like "wish we could snuggle and boogie"? then picture that appeared to be her legs in the bathtub... i was confused. Then her topless. what timing huh? after i responded with like "WHOA!" she DISAPEARED or fell asleep!!!! it was just out of the blue really and there was not a word about it after or the next day, and so HERES the question, What the hell was that about first of all. She is fairly distant with me in general and never says anything sexual to me almost ever since shes been with her BF aside from a COUPLE times way back during harder times, so i cant help but think she did this to A) get a reaction from me for her own self esteem? B) torment me further, either directly or indirectly. i guess after all this time, i found it hard to believe that it was in her to do either things considering i have BEEN trying to do the whole "FRIEND" thing with her... maybe she thought it harmless, maybe not. at this point if someone can just mess around with your feelings to MAKE THEMSELVES feel better really puts things in that perspective, where im dealing with my feelings and she doesnt have any anymore, having moved on but seeks some SEXUAL attention? the funny part would be if i had got really upset about it, and said WHAT ARE YOU DOING ****ing with my feelings, she cry endlessly or just get so upset. not sure this friendship is a real REALITY
mental_traveller Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 at this point if someone can just mess around with your feelings to MAKE THEMSELVES feel better really puts things in that perspective, where im dealing with my feelings and she doesnt have any anymore, having moved on but seeks some SEXUAL attention? the funny part would be if i had got really upset about it, and said WHAT ARE YOU DOING ****ing with my feelings, she cry endlessly or just get so upset. not sure this friendship is a real REALITY Bingo, you nailed it. Ask yourself do you want to be a shoulder to cry on, a chump for her to get scraps of sexual attention? You need to cut her off and rely on genuine friends to confide in.
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