Anastasia0309 Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 So, what would you do if your ex asked about one of your friends? Keep in mind this friend and your ex had very obvious attraction to eachother when you all were dating? Would it bother you if you were already over it and in love with someone else?
ashleigh422 Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 Depends.. how long were the two of you together? How long have you been friends with the friend? Do you love the ex still? With all that in mind.. if you still love the ex..the answer is NEVER.. it is not acceptable for your friend to see the ex.. NEVER. If you don't love the ex and weren't with him/her for very long.. and you obviously new they had an attraction,... then I guess it MIGHT be alright.. so long as you can honestly say that you don't still have feelings for the ex. Perhaps the ex is just doing this to get you jealous.. which perhaps might be working????
Author Anastasia0309 Posted December 2, 2008 Author Posted December 2, 2008 Okay so lets say you dated for 4 years and lived together for 3 of the 4. It's been 2 years since you all broke up and you have already moved on and are in love with someone else. If you love someone else then you don't love your ex anymore. As far as the friend well you have known them for awhile but the friend is more like your best friends cousin that your not close to. I just think if two people use to love each other and they have moved on what's the harm in letting your ex catch up with your friend? Why would you care if you love someone else? Unless you have feeling for the ex still. That would be the only reason it pisses you off, right?
Cub Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 It pisses you off? Though you've indirectly alluded to your reaction through the original question, you haven't explicitly stated how you feel. But anyhow, it's not likely that you still have feelings for your ex - though you may convince yourself that you do by your own confusion over the situation - but rather you're angry about the situation itself. I think you feel upset that you and your ex have grown so far apart that relationships with others are not outside of the conversational boundaries; ergo, you're angry because the feelings you cherished so much before the breakup are gone. That's just my guess, though.
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