worth it Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 It has been a month and 3 weeks since me and my ex of 5 years broke up. I haven't talked to him for 2 weeks. Suprisingly I feel fine. I am seeing other people now (more than one) and have many options to choose from. Even though I feel like I can make it on my own and I will be fine without him I can't help but to think about him everyday. How long will this last? He keeps poping in my head several times a day and it is kind of annoying. It should be out of sight out of mind, right?
Cub Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 Yeah. You'll find yourself thinking about him less and less as time goes on and, eventually, you'll wake up and not think about him at all. Sure he'll cross your mind from time to time when your daily interactions remind you of something he said or did, but it'll be just another happy memory.
ashleigh422 Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 I'm with Cub.. its totally normal to feel that right now. There is a reason that the two of you broke it off and if it's lasted this long.. chances are it'll last. Out of sight out of mind... no dear... that is such an idiosyncracy.... no such luck, it would make life way too easy However.. if you continue to feel sad and miss him and stop dating others.. then maybe the breakup just wasn't really what you wanted.. ?
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