Confused father Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 The OW and I, with whom I work (2 person outfit, no where to hide), have decided that we are just not going to let anything else happen until the marriage is dissolved. We are going to be seeing each other daily, but we are simply not going to do anything untoward. We do not want to risk what we both feel is going to be really terrific. I am going to be using this forum and letters written to her (that she will not get until we are "clear") to release the emotions. We agreed that if we could harbor these feelings for 3 years without saying anything, we can wait some months to be free. Is it going to be easy? No. But what good is? No one but us knows about us at this point, so we are confident that as long as we remain chaste, across the board, all will be well.
JustBreathe Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Hi there, I took a little time to read your other posts on the other thread but I may have missed something... it is very hard to sift through all the posts and try to figure out what is what, so... 3 years ago your wife had an affair with the muscleman military guy who was a married patient of hers .. got that much. However, I think you said you believe she may CURRENTLY be involved in an emotional affair as well...?? Is that right? With who? Her military lover from the past? Do they still communicate?
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