Cuddy Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 I'm not sure if this topic belongs here, so feel free to move it to its correct place... Now, here's the thing: I have a dilemma, and it's sort of complicated. I'll try to sum it all up very shortly. A year ago I left my (cheating) husband (with tendencies extremely undesired), and I moved into my own appartment. Then I discovered that he'd kept a lot of bills from me, and since he was already registered as a poor payer (in lack of better words, you'll have to excuse me, I'm Norwegian and my English is rusty) our electricity was registered in my name - after all we were going to grow old together. My total debt now is about 14 000 US dollars, and I'm working hard to pay it all off. I met a guy, we grew close as friends and since we were both a little pressed for money he suggested that I move in with him, and save a lot of money on rent and electricity. The thing is that we used to be FB's as well, and I (of course) developed a lot of feelings for him. There has been a lot of back and forth and last Friday he told me that he wanted us to stop having sex for good, I was disappointed at first, but I'm more than fine with it now and I'm moving on. Which brings me to what I really wanted to ask for your opinions on; last night I went out with the people I work with for a Christmas party and I met a guy, he was really cute and I wound up giving him my phone number. He told me he'd just come out of a long-term relationship about a month ago, so I'm not expecting any further response from him, but only time will tell. The thing I'm wondering right now is wether or not I should tell my former FB about this since we're sharing an appartment, at the same time I'm thinking "Why bother?" when I don't expect to hear from the guy I met... So what do you guys think? Do I tell or do I wait?
awesomeness43 Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 dont say anything, no point in making it awkward....
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