Kels90 Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 My ex and I got together in September, then we broke up like a month after. We stayed friends. Just about two weeks ago, he asked me if I wanted to give the relationship another try. Of course I said yes because I was still in love with him, in fact, I still am. He told me that he was going to spend Thanksgiving morning with me. However, couple days before Thanksgiving, he ignored my calls and texts. Never bothered to write or call back. He didn't even say a Happy Thanksgiving on Thanksgiving. I was really mad because I'm pretty sure I didn't do anything wrong. I got him pissed off one morning, but I asked him if he was still pissed at me like a day after, he said no. So I decided to go to his place after work. I texted him and just went over to his place. His roommate told me that he just left. WTH?! Obviously, he was ignoring me. But why though? So I got really mad and told his roommate to tell my ex that we are over. I broke up with someone I'm madly in love with. I've been really sad about it since I told his roommate that we're over. I just wanted to know why he was ignoring my calls and everything. It just hurts so bad when the person you are in love with don't call you back.
Cub Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 Was it wrong to break up with him? Hard to say. He promised to spend the day with you, but didn't, and he avoided giving you an explanation for obviously blowing you off - you're right to be mad. Ending the relationship so suddenly is a tad extreme though, and it will probably only create more problems than it resolves. Hmm. Since he was ignoring you, I figure the ball is still in his court, so just wait for him to contact you, then you can discuss why he was ignoring you. But I've gotta tell ya, your relationship sounds really flimsy. I think you'd be better off just moving on.
Author Kels90 Posted December 1, 2008 Author Posted December 1, 2008 but I mean what does it mean though? is he seeing another girl? did he loose interest in me? was it something I had done? because why would he wanted to get back with me just a week before he started to ignore me?
Cub Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 I can't say, and any guess would be based on flimsy assumptions. I know it's really important that you know (I've been in that state of limbo), but you can't dwell on it. Intentions are immaterial - the only concrete factor is how he's treated you.
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