singlelife Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 I had a date last night and all she could say over and over is you're a freak. I took it as a complement!! I did want to know though...do most women secretly prefer freaks.
CandyGirlXO Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 What do you mean by freak, I need more detail. What is it you like, that made her call you a freak?
Gremio Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 It all depends on her tone. She was being flirty or serious?
Author singlelife Posted December 1, 2008 Author Posted December 1, 2008 It was afterwards and she was extremely suprised and happy!! ANd I mean sexual freak. She told all her friends. Anyway what's the scoop
Gremio Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 Well I don't know the scoop! Now if I was there with you I could give you a sure answer, but I can only go on your words, and in text, which is the hardest to interpret. I assume you're pretty comfortable with your "freakishness" since you don't mind she told everyone about it. How old are the two of you?
CandyGirlXO Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 LOL yes I know you mean SEXUAL freak, but for me it would depend on how freaky. I consider myself a little bit of a freak but everyone's definition of what a freak is, is different. Do you mean like S&M, threesomes, anal, there are all sorts of different things.
Gremio Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 LOL yes I know you mean SEXUAL freak, but for me it would depend on how freaky. I consider myself a little bit of a freak but everyone's definition of what a freak is, is different. Do you mean like S&M, threesomes, anal, there are all sorts of different things. Out of curiousity, what's the best way to bring this up when you've been with someone for some time (from a woman's perspective)? I am a very sexual being and do have fetishes, but am also very careful with overstepping boundaries. I don't want to ask if she is into "x" and turn into singlelife over here! No offense LoL!
CandyGirlXO Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 Out of curiousity, what's the best way to bring this up when you've been with someone for some time (from a woman's perspective)? I am a very sexual being and do have fetishes, but am also very careful with overstepping boundaries. I don't want to ask if she is into "x" and turn into singlelife over here! No offense LoL! Hey if you have been together for a while, you SHOULD be able to talk about sex openly, about what you like, what you want to try. That should be easy, you already have been sleeping with her, bring it up. If you are too nervous to ask for something, maybe save it for when you two are out having a few drinks and then bring it up. Maybe kind of like a joke, and see how she reacts.
Author singlelife Posted December 1, 2008 Author Posted December 1, 2008 Well my original question is do women prefer freaks. I assumed everones freak level is different and that's why I didn't and won't go into details. But hey, how about some answers guys and gals
Gremio Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 Hey if you have been together for a while, you SHOULD be able to talk about sex openly, about what you like, what you want to try. That should be easy, you already have been sleeping with her, bring it up. If you are too nervous to ask for something, maybe save it for when you two are out having a few drinks and then bring it up. Maybe kind of like a joke, and see how she reacts. I agree. Communication is absolutely key. I can admit my problem is that in my last LTR, my girlfriend did not want to do anything that I liked. I loved performing oral on her, but she never did in return. I love lingerie, but she would NEVER wear it, and if I asked, she said I was pressuring her. It's funny how sometimes the most gorgeous women are the most insecure with themselves.
CandyGirlXO Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 Well my original question is do women prefer freaks. I assumed everones freak level is different and that's why I didn't and won't go into details. But hey, how about some answers guys and gals Thats understandable if you don't want to go into detail, but this is a forum and no one will judge you and no one knows you. If you want answers you might have to go into detail. I like some freaky things but there are some things that I would not like I would consider a turn off. I am not into threesomes, or into some major S&M besides perhaps being tied up. No whipping or major abuse.
Gremio Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 Well my original question is do women prefer freaks. I assumed everones freak level is different and that's why I didn't and won't go into details. But hey, how about some answers guys and gals There is no right or wrong answer. Some like plain sex, some love to be tied up and choked. I'm a mid 20s male and enjoy everything from passionate sex to... well I won't go there.
CandyGirlXO Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 It's funny how sometimes the most gorgeous women are the most insecure with themselves. Very true, I am at times, but once I have been with a guy long enough and them telling me how beautiful I am to them, makes me a lot more comfortable and then anything goes!
Gremio Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 Very true, I am at times, but once I have been with a guy long enough and them telling me how beautiful I am to them, makes me a lot more comfortable and then anything goes! The girl I'm interesting in now asked to wear a shirt of mine the first night we were alone! The second night she was undressing to get comfortable and asked if I minded... of course I minded... I was so mad! LoL: laugh: My last LTR though, I didn't matter what I said, did, praised... nothing mattered ever. She wanted missionary sex. That's it.
berrieh Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 Well my original question is do women prefer freaks. I assumed everones freak level is different and that's why I didn't and won't go into details. But hey, how about some answers guys and gals Well, without details, my answer is no. If I considered it "freaky," I probably wouldn't like it. "Freak" to me is a deragatory term.
alphamale Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 I had a date last night and all she could say over and over is you're a freak. I took it as a complement!! I did want to know though...do most women secretly prefer freaks. most women like men who are sexually open in the sack and take charge. things like mixing up different positions, dirty talk, making jokes, making noise at orgasm.....stuff like that. if she doesn't like something she'll usually tell you. if you can make her orgasm in any way then you're in
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