scold2886 Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 Do women really want what they can't have even if they had it befor????? And does no contact work on making them want to come back even if they were the dumper???? Help me i need some input on how im going to get gher back in the long run.Thanks
alwayssme Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 Do we want what we cant have? I don't know how to answer that honestly. Because if there is a guy I don't like, it doesn't matter what he does, he can act indifferent or try everything on this planet to make me like him...and I wont...I wouldn't even care if they stopped talking to me. But I think thats the case with everyone. However that's for guys i have NEVER been with and i have NEVER liked. So it's a tricky question. I don't know how dumpers feel about us, it must not be like that though (i hope not) knowing they have been with us and loved us at one point. Sorry I have no idea how to answer that question and my response is probably so confusing. Ewww, now I'm thinking I hope my ex doesnt feel about me how I feel about the guys I never been with and dont like......Well I was his girlfriend for two years so it has to be different...still doesn't change the fact that he lost feelings....
Lizzie60 Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 Do women really want what they can't have even if they had it befor????? It depends.. if we had it before.. then it's not something we can't have.. for me.. I wouldn't want something I had before.. And does no contact work on making them want to come back even if they were the dumper???? From my experience, I was the dumper in most cases (except one time).. NC didn't make me want to go back.. it allowed me to move on..
amaysngrace Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 I don't know about that wanting what you can't have stuff. I want what I have. As for being the dumper, I've never gone back realizing I made a mistake. If I dumped him it's because in my mind I had a good reason to. I wouldn't go back because that would be really desperate.
EmperorR Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 Sorry man once most women make a decision its done finish. Even the odd time they want you back, there's also pride to deal with.
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