SarahT111 Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Why wont these feelings go away? I have tried sooo dam hard, why wont they just leave? Im am so tired My ex treated me like crap, he was ALWAYS angry and yelling at me for no reason, he ignored me for days and days on end and never once asked about me or how I was. I worked my ass off to try and get him to talk or try and make him happy just for him to go psyco at me over nothing. He was also treating his bestfriend the same way and refused to talk to him and went psyco over the drop of a hat. We bent over backwards to accomodate him but he just threw it in our faces everytime. This carried on for a good 2 months He broke my heart with all the nasty comments and lack of talking and I had to leave, his bestfriend also backed way off and stopped talking to him. Later that week I found out he had an affair going on with another MALE before we got together. Nothing physical happened but they sent raunchy txts, underwear shots of themselves and my ex even invited him to stay with him for the holidays. Then my ex did the same thing to him, shut him out entirely and moved onto me. He refused to speak to him and went absolutly psyco everytime the poor guy tried to talk to him, he openly bashed the poor guy and spread rumours he was stalking him and he couldn't get him to leave him alone. Stupidly I and everyone else bought these. Its been 3 weeks since we split and my heart is still broken everyday. I miss him so much I miss the old him before he started treating me like crap. It was the happiest I had ever been even if it was all a lie. I just cant shake these feelings Neither can the other poor boy who he had before me or his neglected bestfriend. Why do we idolise someone who is SO arogant and who treats us like crap? I dont understand why I cant shake these feelings? I feel so misrable, I desperatly miss who he used to be He contaced me yesterday for the first time, he sounded all happy like he used to be, and he was so nice to me just the way he used to. Although I didnt really reply, it threw me and I couldnt sleep all night as I just missed him so much. There are a million better guys out there so why do I idolise one who treats me like crap, couldnt care less about me and is potentially gay? I dont know what wrong with me, I just cant shake these feelings Will it get better?
Geishawhelk Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 No. Not until you make it get better. Until then, you're still churning all the same stuff, day in, day out, and feeling bad. Any time you really do realise that the way to stop this, is to stop this, let me know. We've told you. Time and time again, we've told you. And it seems you still want to come back in here, and keep being told. What is it that's stopping you getting it?
Author SarahT111 Posted December 1, 2008 Author Posted December 1, 2008 Believe me i am trying sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo hard! But I just cant seem to shake these feelings! I do EVERYTHING reccomended on this sight but they are just lingering in my thoughts all the time! I just want them to go, I feel as much of an idiot as I sound trust me!
Gremio Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 This is the easiest way I got over an ex: thing of all the bad things. I just kept reminding myself of her mistakes, the times I felt unloved, and it made it so much easier.
Catwoman67 Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 It sounds to me as though he can't make up his mind whether he likes men or women - and the person he is mad at is himself. He is fighting with his inner termoil as he is confused.
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