perpdartNY Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 okay, i need some advice on what i should next. i am a male, 17 yrs. old and currently in high school. so i finally found the nerve inside me to finally go up to a total stranger and strike up a conversation. it was this past saturday, at a bar that doesn't card; i was with a buddy and we were just talking and drinking and he told me to get the number of the girl next to him. i said, ehh sure why not... when i started talking to the girl, he said he told us he would be right back. so, long story short... i said hi and asked her if she cared to play a game of dice with me. she accepted and we were just having small talk and shooting the crap and all, meanwhile i was getting really buzzed. she told me she is a senior in college(she knew i was young.), but i still proceeded to ask for her number, she gave it to me. now its been a day since i asked for her number. when should i call? what should i do next? is she way too old for me? i'm not looking for anything close to serious dating. perhaps just call her out for another drink and practice on speaking to women more? help would be appreciated.
Gremio Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Honestly, stay away. If she is in her 20s, that means you met on false pretenses, or basically you lied without saying it.
berrieh Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 Does she know you're in HS? If not, there is no next. If so, it creeps me out. You said she's a College Senior. That would be 21-22. She shouldn't be dating high schoolers.
Author perpdartNY Posted December 1, 2008 Author Posted December 1, 2008 yes, she knows i'm in high school. well i don't mean to get into anything serious. just call her out for a drink and shoot the crap. so, i'm guessing bottom line is no?
Gremio Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 yes, she knows i'm in high school. well i don't mean to get into anything serious. just call her out for a drink and shoot the crap. so, i'm guessing bottom line is no? Correct. Stay away.
xpaperxcutx Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 Was she alone at the bar that night? Most college girls wouldn't date below their age or someone still in HS. They've been known to stick to their own age group or look for a sugar daddy.
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