Gremio Posted December 6, 2008 Posted December 6, 2008 so she's now said she's free Sunday Excellent! I must warn you though. Don't get your hopes up. Without any set times or arrangements, nothing is firm.
Author likestolaugh Posted December 6, 2008 Author Posted December 6, 2008 true enough. I'll call her or txt her sometime later today (saturday) and confirm a time and place.
Author likestolaugh Posted December 7, 2008 Author Posted December 7, 2008 so after playing unwanted telephone tag for the better part of an afternoon she's said she wants to come see my work (artwork) tomorrow afternoon. She's going out to a party in the evening. She's bringing a friend with her, someone who apparently saw my stuff on facebook and who really loved it... so unfortunately that also means that I won't have one on one time with her tomorrow. But in our brief convo tonight she did say that she would see me more often throughout December. Now, hopefully she sticks to that.
Author likestolaugh Posted December 8, 2008 Author Posted December 8, 2008 so she came over with her friend for about an hour... not much in the way of progress of course, as she was with her friend... but hopefully I'll see her soonish 1 on 1...
Author likestolaugh Posted January 28, 2009 Author Posted January 28, 2009 so I'm not in the habit of bumping my old threads... (and anyway, I've moved on to another girl)... but anyway... a few days after my last post I basically stopped chasing her. Today, after all this time... she asks me out for coffee... I almost knew this would happen as she'd been building up contact with me again over the week. so I just bumped this to say... for all those guys out there... it really does pay (even though I'm not gonna cash in) to back off and lose interest. Really. that's all. Seriously, game playing does suck tho.
uggonen Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 I suggest u to leave her and find a new one from http://www.friskiedating.com
redant Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 hmm keep us updated. Good lick! OOPs haha Luck!
sid3 Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 so I just bumped this to say... for all those guys out there... it really does pay (even though I'm not gonna cash in) to back off and lose interest. Really. that's all. Seriously, game playing does suck tho. Yeah it sucks. It's almost like a game of chess, one wrong move and your done. There is also a strong chance that she is missing the attention you were providing. Although I'm not fond of the word attention wh*res, they're out there. Not to burst your bubble. In fact, who knows, maybe it just took not having you around for her to realise she was possibly missing out on a great catch. Good for you though, hopefully you'll get what your hoping to out of it. Your absolutely right, in some instances it's more productive to show less interest than it is to show too much. Same thing pretty much applies to women as well. Most humans are fickle creatures, and it's near impossible to figure out just what works for one in particular in the beginning.
Surfer Dude Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 Being unavailable increases person's perceived value, while being too available decreases it. It's one of the fundamental rules of social dynamics. Everyone is affected by this to some degree, but more refined and intelligent people can usually see past it and not play games. When someone strings you along, it's time to drop them cold turkey.
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