poppy84 Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Basically I really like this guy. We met up once since our original meeting but I had been drinking so was a bit of a mess. I apologised for being an idiot and he said thats cool, no hard feelings. So i decided to let things calm down a bit before getting in touch again, I text the other day and he didn't reply, i just asked how he was kinda thing. I've been thinking today I might just totally put myself out there and text him to ask if he fancies doing something sometime ... on one hand if he doesnt reply again or says no then at least I know 100% that he really is not interested but on the other hand it'd be quite embarrassing for me, even tho the chances of me bumping into him are small. Ah what to do?!
ashleigh422 Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 I know that you didn't come here to get a lecture.. but doll.. drinking in excess.. exspecially on a second date is a sure way not to get a serious 3rd date: Guys in a bar may like the whole drunk girl thing.. but a man that wants a relationship is more likely to be appalled that you would show up like this to meet him (its another thing if he took you out drinking). However.. beings that you cant change things.. best bet I think, is for you to text or call him and put it out there... like hey I know I really was not myself the last time I saw you.. no excuses.. I would really like to meet up again and reintroduce you to the real me... Then yes.. if no response... move on.
norajane Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Do you have your cell phone with you pretty much all the time? Do you check it as soon as you get an alert for text messages? Yeah? That's very much how a LOT of people use their cell phones. Meaning, this guy probably saw your text right away and chose not to answer it. Now, when you get a text from someone you really want to hear from, or are really interested in, don't you reply pretty quickly? So does this guy. So, it's probably a waste of time to text him again since he didn't reply to your first one. But if you have something left to say that was unsaid, then call him and say it live so you can get his reaction without sitting around for days wondering why he didn't answer your text.
prettybaby Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Don't text again. Just call him. Apologize for drinking the other day and try to sound super nice and sane lol Whatever the case, you'll be set for sure with just one short conversation instead of sending another text (which will sound desperate no matter what you write) and to which he probably won't respond.
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