OCCDAVE Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Today my sister got a text from my ex saying when am i gonna pick up my stuff.My sister said i dunno soon he's busy then she shifted moods and said leave me alone im out with my bf.I saw that i smiled i thought one of two things i knew she was messing around from the start or this is another one of her comments to spark a reaction out of me since i have gone a week and half nc and she didnt expect me to last.My question is do i go get my stuff or have someone else go i wanna go but dont wanna break the nc.
prettybaby Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 I have no idea what you're talking about. Quotes, punctuation and paragraphs would help.
Robert86x Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Get your stuff back from your ex. Then call your phone's operator and tell them to block your ex's number from your phone and your sister's phone. Get all his pictures and burn them. Then fly to brazil, do some ayauasca and try to get your mind off your ex. What ever you do, don't try to kill your ex. Once you have been touched spiritually, you will no longer have to suffer from this pain. Your ex will no longer exist in your mind, if you choose too, If he keeps on calling you and harassing you, then call the authorities and have him arrested.
ashleigh422 Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 I have no idea what you're talking about. Quotes, punctuation and paragraphs would help. SERIOUSLY.. that was the hardest thing I have ever had to read in my life. If the just of the story was that you need to go to your ex's and get your stuff and you thus far have been strong and had no contact but still want to get your things, then my answer to you is I think you should take someone with you, or tell her a SPECIFIC time that you want to be there and she can leave the door open for you, but she should not be present at the time. Also, no contact is great and works for cutting yourself off and being strong.. but you still have your things at her house... therefore, you must keep some contact with her via email or text or something, otherwise.. you may find your things in her lawn one day. Once you get your belongings.. then go no contact with her.
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 I'd either ask someone to go over there for you, or send a message through your sister to tell your ex to put your stuff in a box on her doorstep and tell her exactly when you'll pick it up. But yeah - agreed with the punctuation thing. I had to re-read a couple times to understand who the F said what to whom.
xpaperxcutx Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 I would definitely send a male friend to pick up the stuff. Men are extremely competitive, it wouldn't hurt to mess with the ex's head a bit.
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