Brady_to_Moss Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Well was going out tuesday night with a girl and now she tells me she just wants to be friends....what?? i didnt even have time to screw up! This has happened the last 5 times ive asked a girl out on a date...BEFORE the date she says lets just be friends....wow. I am so use to this horrible luck but now i am really getting sick of it. I just want to go out with a girl one night and have a good time! Is that too much to ask for? Might be in my case
Gremio Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Well let me ask. How old are you and how old are these women?
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted November 30, 2008 Author Posted November 30, 2008 Well let me ask. How old are you and how old are these women? I am 19 and she is 19 as well.
Green Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Well was going out tuesday night with a girl and now she tells me she just wants to be friends....what?? i didnt even have time to screw up! This has happened the last 5 times ive asked a girl out on a date...BEFORE the date she says lets just be friends....wow. I am so use to this horrible luck but now i am really getting sick of it. I just want to go out with a girl one night and have a good time! Is that too much to ask for? Might be in my case Please look how tense and insulted you are thats where you screwed up. Learn how to just have fun when meeting a girl, if you invite them to a concert or some other fun thing it shouldn't even be clear if its a date so they should have no reason to say lets just be friends. Then just be touchy and flirtatious and make sure you go in for a kiss (don't even ask) and just make sure you are having fun and try not to take rejection so hard
Isolde Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Wow, that sucks; I disagree with KMT, I doubt you were doing anything wrong. Sounds like you might be meeting a bunch of flakes. College aged girls can be weird like that. Or maybe she met someone else.
Green Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Wow, that sucks; I disagree with KMT, I doubt you were doing anything wrong. Sounds like you might be meeting a bunch of flakes. College aged girls can be weird like that. Or maybe she met someone else. He's mainly doing something wrong because he's taking it so personaly and now he's making statements like the "backed out like all the others" which means he's now feeling sorry for himself which is going to take him in the oposite of the results he wants
Isolde Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 He's mainly doing something wrong because he's taking it so personaly and now he's making statements like the "backed out like all the others" which means he's now feeling sorry for himself which is going to take him in the oposite of the results he wants So if someone gets rejected 100 times its automatically their fault?
Green Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 So if someone gets rejected 100 times its automatically their fault? Please he wasn't even really rejected I bet and maybe if it happened 100 times I'd allow him to feel sorry for himself (even though its useless). 99% of the battle is believing in yourself and enjoying life. If you learn how to enjoy asking girls out and even being rejected by them everything will be more fun for you and you'll start getting accepted
Isolde Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Please he wasn't even really rejected I bet and maybe if it happened 100 times I'd allow him to feel sorry for himself (even though its useless). 99% of the battle is believing in yourself and enjoying life. If you learn how to enjoy asking girls out and even being rejected by them everything will be more fun for you and you'll start getting accepted Hm maybe I could learn something from your attitude. It sucks being a shy girl but maybe I can change the shy part.
MN randomguy Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 So... Brady_to_Moss You're a freshman in the dorms, right? You're trying to date girls in the dorms around you right? Have you made any enemies w/ girls on the girls floor? Not to make you paranoid, but, sisterhood is thick. Maybe they meet you, agree to a date, go back, talk to their girls, do the background check and get negative feedback. Not too likely, and if you don't automatically read this and know who has the vendetta I want you to put it out of you mind right away. I know the feeling though, the odds of 5 consecutive girls having the same quirk seems low, but it is entirely possible.
SoulSearch_CO Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 So... Brady_to_Moss You're a freshman in the dorms, right? You're trying to date girls in the dorms around you right? Have you made any enemies w/ girls on the girls floor? Not to make you paranoid, but, sisterhood is thick. Maybe they meet you, agree to a date, go back, talk to their girls, do the background check and get negative feedback. Not too likely, and if you don't automatically read this and know who has the vendetta I want you to put it out of you mind right away. I know the feeling though, the odds of 5 consecutive girls having the same quirk seems low, but it is entirely possible. This is kinda what I was thinking.
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