lovestruck818 Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 Hello! First thanks for all your replies!! I was in SUCH a bad PMS'ing mood when i wrote this post. I guess its only normal for being 35 & not married, bothers us more times than others, esp. when PMS'ing. I am alot better now! I agree with alot of you! Yes, dating in my 20's & 30's is Totally different. In my 20's I met guys everytime i went out, there was so many guys around. I noticed in my 30's, it is SO much harder, i barely meet anyone when i go out, there is no one around, Its really weird. Yes Cherry, I agree with what you said. A lot of guys are attracted to me, but no one that I would want to be in a relationship with. I seem to attract all the wackos. Yes, Cherry, I agree with everything you say. Finding a guy is like a darn project. Friends & family always trying to make sure u are in the right place at the right time, & always making sure u look perfect, etc. Its tiring & a pain in the cooley!! hahah Yes, I am content at being single at times. I have so many things going for me, great family, great friends, good job, no money problems, etc. But when i get in my moods, i get in my moods! hahah- hence saturday when I wrote this post! hahah I have a wonderful boyfriend that doesn't lie, cheat & treats me really good, BUT just needed some adjusting. I see how horrible men could be out there & need to give my BF another chance to get over his insecurities cause he really is a GREAT guy! I always thought there was the PERFECT guy out there for me, But i come to realize its not like that, no one is perfect, everyone has something, its what u could put up with & deal with. I know alot of married couples that are MISERABLE, my own brother for one! But they just stay for the kids! I don't envy them at all, but I want my chance to fail, ya know! hahaah I want a chance at marriage!! hahah No Cherry, I don't want to grow old alone. I would love to experience what everyone else is experiencing out there. I'm sure u all know about my Plan B. If i am not married by 37, I am having kids on my own! I will make the best of my life with what God gave me!! If i can't find a guy to make a family with, I will make my own family.. I refuse to pass up motherhood, just because i can't find my mr. right......But thats a whole other story. Thank you all for all of your replies! I REALLY appreciate it! Now when I get in my depressed mood, I will come back here & re-read all your replies & see that I am not alone & it isn't always greener on the other side. "Cooley?" Ok, what 35 year old uses the word "cooley"?
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