Author Gremio Posted November 30, 2008 Author Posted November 30, 2008 It's easy for a guy to get an erection while STILL not being "into" the girl. Know what I'm saying here? You can be turned on, and still not want to f*ck her. We women WANT to be WANTED. We want to be the ones making you wait, not the other way around. You should know something: words mean nothing, not when it comes to conveying interest. If this is a possibility of how she feels, what would you suggest I do to make sure she knows it? The last time we were together, we had plans to go to a restaurant and see a movie... a date. Timing got screwed up, we went out for to a club, then came to my house. The rest I've already stated. I don't want to appear over eager, so I have been purposely moving slow. Also, in the back of my mind is advice that I have read about her type, meaning a 10 (in my eyes). The woman who draws every guys eyes in the room. I'm trying to follow the advice given, which was to do the opposite of what most guys would do... try to get in her pants, talk only about her looks and not feelings... I want to stand out.
Author Gremio Posted December 1, 2008 Author Posted December 1, 2008 Just wanted to keep everyone in the loop. Went out tonight with a few friends and she called me. I excused myself for a few minutes and we talked for a little bit. She apologized about her absence and explained that she has been under a bit of anxiety all week because of college, projects, work, and the holidays. I did say directly that I was concerned that she was worried about our night together, she assured me that wasn't it by any means, and she was calling me now (on her way to work) because she was worried that's how I would feel. Since then, she has been texting me like she always had before, and we made plans for tomorrow. I have to say this... communication is a huge rule in my book. I completely severed a friendship because when they had problems, they would disappear. And I mean completely gone, as if made you wonder if they died and you check the newspapers. Then two weeks later they call and pretend everything is normal. It gets me how people are so different. When I have a problem, sure I may not want to share it, but I don't disappear off the face of the earth. I just explain that I'm having a rough day (week, etc) and I'll get back to them soon.
CommitmentPhobe Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 I did say directly that I was concerned that she was worried about our night together, she assured me that wasn't it by any means, and she was calling me now (on her way to work) because she was worried that's how I would feel. . There you go, she just needed to fall out of the loop for a bit. That's how it is for some people, don't take it so personally.
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