Author LoveLace Posted November 30, 2008 Author Posted November 30, 2008 Urgh. How about I'm working "l8" tonite? From a 40yrs old. Back on topic, Lovelace you clearly misrepresented yourself. What makes you think there's no difference between long and short hair? My BF did this too; posted pics with facial hair then showed up clean shaven. I had to ask him to kindly grow his facial hair back because that's what I thought I was getting into. I have to be honest here and say if I was a guy and and the girl said, "I'm sorry, but I'll need you to grow that facial hair back because that's the picture you showed me"....that would be enough for me to run...I know that some guys look better with either/or, but to do what you did instantly would make me think you were maybe controlling and trying to take away what makes me unique - the fact that I'd also happen to like how I look without the facial hair, and if the girl I date doesn't like it, tough sh*t. My hair went from being past my shoulders to being a little above my shoulders. Nothing changed about the color. But if it were to make a guy think that I was "hiding behind old pictures", then that's his problem...if he thought I had a pretty face and everything else, my hair being a little shorter should be an unneccessary hang-up, the focus should be getting to know me...so I don't want a person who is that judgemental anyway. We do have a tendency to expect someone to look just like their picture...but it isn't like I gained or lost 20lbs, or used more/less make-up, or anything else. Even if pics are fairly recent, there's always a chance that something small might have changed since then, and I consider my hair cut minor considering it's just 3 inches shorter or so... On the comment about the guys that start sex talk 5 mintues into chatting - there is nothing more annoying...that and "do you have web cam?" is the 1st thing they ask...all after claiming that they are out for love...whatever! Even worse are guys claim to want a LTR, then in conversation it slips out that he "really doesn't want a girlfriend", he just wants to have fun or some kind of b.s. line like that. They are the ones who use the LTR as a way to get the date, and nothing more.
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