cbabbs0129 Posted November 28, 2008 Posted November 28, 2008 the gf ended things with me the other day, at first I tried to make her realize it was a mistake that did not work and we have not spoken in about a week, I want to invite her over for a movie and play the just friends role but I am not sure if thats a good idea.
Geishawhelk Posted November 28, 2008 Posted November 28, 2008 No. It's not a good idea. The reason she ended it, is because she doen't want to see you any more. The correct and usual thing to do, is to go No Contact. people who do this, "heal" at different rates, but they heal, nonetheless. People who persist in trying to stay in touch, remain friends, or break no contact - prolong the agony and suffer for longer. Go No Contact, move on and leave it be.
ashleigh422 Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 "play the just friends role" - DON'T DO THAT.. she doesn't deserve that.. maybe she would like to be friends... but if your just going to play the role.. its unfair to her.. I AGREE.. no contact and move on.
SoulSearch_CO Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 I'm going to go with 'no'. There are plenty of ways to get friends without resorting to hanging out with an ex. Trust me on this one...not a good idea.
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