Sweetgapeach028 Posted November 28, 2008 Posted November 28, 2008 Ok to make a long story short, i have talked to this man on a site like fanbox, he told me he was 5'5 like myself, or course i dont have a problem with that so we met on sunday, and he is not 5'5 hes shorter than me. not a real big deal with me. i had a good time with him thought he did the same, i had alittle to much to drink so i stayed at his house and we didnt have sex he was a real gentleman, even started my car the next morning before we headed out the door. but what is strange to me he didnt try to kiss me or anything the whole night, nor did he hug me or kiss me when we left one another. Now i havent heard from him, except yesterday to say in a text to me happy thanksgiving. i replied back to him happy thanksgiving, maybe when you come home we can go and grab a drink if you are not busy, no comment to that no call no nothing, so i persume he is not interested or why the long delay in getting in contact with me? Are there rules to the dating on when to call someone how long one should wait, or is he trying to send me signals that hes just not interested.
ashleigh422 Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 To be honest.. how long did you talk to this guy before you met? I presume not to very long. Therefore, if you didn't talk to him for very long I will say there is absolutley no way for you to know. He met you obviously becuase he was attracted to your looks and personality, right? Right! Don't put too much thought into this, and certainly don't get depressed over it. Maybe he is just a shy gentleman and didn't want to be pushy the first time ya'll met. Then on a folllowup, maybe he was with his family over the holiday and didn't want to ditch them. There are two options that I think are presenting them selves to you: 1. Simply stop talking to him, stop texting him, im online and don't call him. Let fate take over and trust that if it's meant to be.... it will. 2. Call or text him and ask him what he's thinking on the situation. If your are an upfront-no games person, this could work, so long as it's the role that you have taken online and via phone/text. DON'T do this if you insecure or have a fear of being rejected. And in the long run.. if he doesn't want to continue talking to you.. then its his loss and you're better off not wasting anymore of your time!! Besides.. he's not your ONLY option!!!
Green Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 good advice, plus don't worry about it if he hasn't gotten in touch with you in the next few days then hes gone
xjadex Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 Even if he had snogged your face off and hugged you a lot, I still wouldn't have taken it as a sign of interest. I met a guy a couple of nights ago I met online, he couldn't keep his hands or lips off me. I've had one phone call since then, which came the day after wed met and no word since. Sounds to me that you've perhaps met a 'gentleman'.....one of a rare breed these days. Think yourself lucky
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