so gutted Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 I have chatted to (another) guy online. After a long online conversation he took my number and didnt call. Then after a few more emails, he called yesterday and today BUT he talks for about 20 minutes and then something comes up and he doesnt call back. Its really annoying. When we do talk he seems interested. I have told him about the married man i was involved with - so he knows very well that I am not going to tolerate another married man. Simple communication should not be this hard. He mentioned he doesnt like technology, but this is horrendous. Also - he is always logged into the site. Why can't I see that this is another non interested party??
Geishawhelk Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 Stop contacting him, and see how long it is between 'now' and his next 'call'. If it's over 2 days - drop him. like a hot coal.
Author so gutted Posted November 26, 2008 Author Posted November 26, 2008 Why does he do this? I am hanging on - even though i shouldnt because i dont know what his issues are....
prettybaby Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 Why do you care? It's the internet. You've never even met this person. There are millions of people online right now, I really wouldn't bother worrying about this one guy.
Shygirl15 Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 I agree. It can be annoying. One of the things I cannot tolerate. However, since it's very early on, he may be keeping his options open and talk to few other people. I guess it's a phase which will pass if he eventually becomes seriously interested with you. My BF did this at first, too.
Author so gutted Posted November 27, 2008 Author Posted November 27, 2008 Well he hasnt called. Another guy i was talking too but disappeared called out of the blue after 2 days. He admitted he didnt like me logging onto the site....(i feel the same when he does). I think i need to expect the men to keep their options open at this stage - i am after all doing the same.
Shygirl15 Posted November 28, 2008 Posted November 28, 2008 I have told him about the married man i was involved with - so he knows very well that I am not going to tolerate another married man. Maybe he got scared of all that negativity talk at very early stage.
amymarieca Posted November 28, 2008 Posted November 28, 2008 I don't think someone has a right to tell another person to not log in to a dating site unless you two have agreed you are in a relationship. You have never even met this person. The guy I have been seeing for two months still logs in to his so it is likely he is still seeing other people as well. I want to take things slow with him and not rush into a relationship. You need to judge the situation based on how well things go between you at first.
Author so gutted Posted December 3, 2008 Author Posted December 3, 2008 Well apparently he has family problems. He sends a daily "hope you have a nice day" message and each time I have randomly logged in - he is always on instant chat!!! WHAT A LIAR.
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