JoeNat Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 So last night I spoke to my GF at around 9:30pm and said goodnight to her because she was at home and was feeling sick and was taking some drugs to feel better. At 11pm I got a call from her that I missed because my phone was not near me. I call her back at 12am when I was going to bed and left a message making sure she was ok becasue I thought she was going to bed earlier, told her to call me when she gets up. Now here comes the wtf part! At 3am I get a call from a woman who is whispering and sounds a bit like my GF. I'm half asleep at this point. So, I ask how she was feeling I get ok, I ask what time she went to bed the answer was around 11 (now this makes sense because that is when I got the last call from her), I ask if she took any more medicine (specifically stated the medicine she was taking) and was told yes I took more. I also called her by her name and got responses. Now she is passing in and out on the phone. At this point I got nervous as I didn't know if she was ok, I say I'm coming over. She goes OK, I get there and walk in (I have a key) and run up to her room to make sure she is fine. Well, I hear her scream "SOMEONE IS IN MY HOUSE". Yes, my GF called the cops not realizing it was me. So, at this point your probably guessed that the person on the phone was not her. Who in the hell it was I have no clue, but why did they answer all my questions as if they were her. At this point she is scared out of her mind, I'm scared cause I dont know what is going on and she is very pissed at me because I scared her. I left about 20 min later after both us calmed down. Now, I just ordered flowers to make up for scaring her but she never even realized that I was just coming to make sure she was ok being that I thought it was her on the phone the entire time. She is angry at me and I'm a bit angry because I just wanted to make sure she is OK! What do I do here... I mean.. this is a weird one...
BrooklynBridge Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 Did her number come up on the caller-id at 3am??
Author JoeNat Posted November 26, 2008 Author Posted November 26, 2008 Number came up with "call 1" which is telling me private number. Which has happened before.
sscutie Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 this is a really weird one... hehe... did she call from a mobile phone?
Author JoeNat Posted November 26, 2008 Author Posted November 26, 2008 I have no idea who, or where this other person called from.
shockandawed Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 Joe, At least you will have a story to share with each other for quite some time. I am fairly certain that it was your gf who called you. You mentioned she took some drugs prior to going to bed. My gf sometimes takes sleeping pills or cold medicine which makes her completely loopy. She was probably in a subconscious, dream like state when she called you. That expalains why she answered some of your questions correctly. I have had more than one silly conversation with my gf in the middle of the night that she never remembers the next day. Honestly, I would go a little easy on all the apologizing. Yes, I understand you scared the crap out of her, but she should be grateful she has a bf who cares enough about her that he comes and checks on her in the middle of the night.
Author JoeNat Posted November 26, 2008 Author Posted November 26, 2008 Joe, At least you will have a story to share with each other for quite some time. I am fairly certain that it was your gf who called you. You mentioned she took some drugs prior to going to bed. My gf sometimes takes sleeping pills or cold medicine which makes her completely loopy. She was probably in a subconscious, dream like state when she called you. That expalains why she answered some of your questions correctly. I have had more than one silly conversation with my gf in the middle of the night that she never remembers the next day. Honestly, I would go a little easy on all the apologizing. Yes, I understand you scared the crap out of her, but she should be grateful she has a bf who cares enough about her that he comes and checks on her in the middle of the night. Well the thing is, I dont think it was her because as I got there and we both realized what was going on, my phone rang again and it was that person. I even let my GF listen to it. So I wonder if she is not so upset with the fact that I scared her but that there is this random women calling me in the middle of the night. However, I have no idea who it could be.
shockandawed Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 Well the thing is, I dont think it was her because as I got there and we both realized what was going on, my phone rang again and it was that person. I even let my GF listen to it. So I wonder if she is not so upset with the fact that I scared her but that there is this random women calling me in the middle of the night. However, I have no idea who it could be. Joe, That was a key bit of information to leave out of your original post don't you think? OK, so now it's just a prank. Ask this person to identify themselves or not to call you again. This also gives more validity to your gf as to why you came running over there so she still should be grateful and appreciative.
Author JoeNat Posted November 26, 2008 Author Posted November 26, 2008 Joe, That was a key bit of information to leave out of your original post don't you think? Yeah, I know. I'm tired, this all went down at 3am and I'm here at work tired lol... Sorry about that..
prettybaby Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 LOL I laughed out loud for real The flowers sound great. Also add a short note explaining what happened if she doesn't know yet, or call her after they've been delivered, or whatever. lol That's really weird though.
Shygirl15 Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 :lmao:! What a charming thread. Good everything was sorted out in the end. Thanks for a good laugh too, lol.
whichwayisup Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 Seems it's possible she doesn't remember and took too many meds.
Author JoeNat Posted December 2, 2008 Author Posted December 2, 2008 So, this pretty much ruined my relationship. As you all know this happened the day before thanksgiving and she never said thanks for the flowers and never answered my calls. I was sitting on my couch at 6:30pm waiting for her to reply to my text messages so I know what is going on for helping her cook for turkey day. I get. "No, your erratic behavior has shown me another side of you. I think I need to take a break. It's unfortunate it is a holiday." Now, my entire family is up in NYC and I live in NC so do I sit at home alone on thanksgiving because she is still angry because I ran over to her house in the middle of the night? After being very upset and just sitting in utter shame and sadness I decided to drive up and see some family. She called me the morning of at 8:50am asking me if I was still going with her. I mean wtf... you call me the morning of after sending me those text messages. Also, I found out who it was that called me that morning and a few more times since then. Ready..... It was my Gay hair cutter who I havent used since August... thats right, he had my number from me making appt's and what not. Can you believe this crap... it wasn't even a female at all... However, he was disgusing his voice. Only me!!!!!
Gremio Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 Um... why did you ex hair stylist call you at all, especially doing what they did?
Author JoeNat Posted December 2, 2008 Author Posted December 2, 2008 Um... why did you ex hair stylist call you at all, especially doing what they did? I dont have any idea... he said ... I'm sorry I was high and drunk...Believe me you cant make this stuff up...
Adamagnet Posted December 3, 2008 Posted December 3, 2008 You can still salvage things, tell your stylist to call your girl, he owes you that much and you have leverage as a customer. Either way, the moral of the story is don't answer private calls. If they can't figure out how to use *82 their phone should be seized and they should be sterilized.
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