OCCDAVE Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 So far i have gone nc with my ex since last thursday and its not easy at all.Well she text my sister yesterday listing even a pair of sox i had left there to return for monday.She knows my only off day is monday so my sister was like you sure you cant come tuesday cause last time she didnt want me to be there but her reply was no i need to come monday .Im puzzled could she be trying to show off her new bf possibly or wants to talk.If she wants to talk how do i go about it cause wont that break the nc rule.
UnamedSeven Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 If she wants to talk, its up to you to either let her in, or turn her away. If you honestly want to continue with nc, then just ignore her completely. Don't be tempted by contacting her. Stay true to the end, by any means necessary.
Vince Black Posted November 27, 2008 Posted November 27, 2008 tell her to keep the socks and whatever else....if you need new socks, buy some if you are strapped for cash...let me know ill do what i can
mikejc Posted November 27, 2008 Posted November 27, 2008 My ex is doing same things, jumping in with emails about hwo she still loves me etc (but she dumped me without warning for another guy). Ive messed up a few times with NC and its horrible. Better to hang tough, and keep control and only you decide if you want NC or not, dont let a pair of socks decide :>) Good luck, its hard eh.
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