Teuen101 Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 Fist I'd like to say thanks for all the help that I've gotten here. this site has helped me tons -you people have helped me more then I could ever express in a simple post. however I didn't always follow or keep the NC rules to the letter. I failed in some areas, but I did deal with things in my own way. I'm the typ of person who can help but to say whats on my mind so letting issues go isnt me- we're all deffrent and thats just me. Frist I had to deal with the hurt I did the begging pleading taking the blame even tho most the things that happend we're not my fault- I just loved her and wanted her back. ( all the begging never works) I wish- I'd just walked away- But being me - I had to make sure it was dead and it was...Then after a good 2 months of trying I gave up and whent NC. Then after a few months I started feeling used and hateing- I was hating her and all the lies of love and the whole deal effected my whole out look on life it self. then things changed I just didnt care ! then it got intresting. One day out of the blue I got a IM from her new man.! ( 7 months later) for some reason he had to let me know how happy she was now and how he knew how to please a woman- I just laughed it off- then I told him all the guys she had been with and he wasnt getting anything anyone else hadnt hit ! I mean good lord she was 21 had been with like 10 people that's like more then a person a year if she started having sex at 15. well anyway I hear from this guy every now and then and for some reason he wants to tell me how good they are having it and what I don't understand is why ? most guy don't go that far- I mean she was trying to hook up with him while me and her we're still together so she cheated on me and she hooked up with me while she was still married ( yeah i know stupid) I thought I could make her happy sence she said she never was! big f-ing mistake. anyway I sent her a E-mail telling her to keep her dog off me- and she just laughed it off- then I just ignored his e-mails..but the last one i got it was like he was trying to be my pal or something. not sure if he is having trouble now sence I did warn him about how she was and he wants to talk to me about it and just don't know how he hasnt been rude in the last few he's been real nice and keep up the front that their still together ...but what i dont get is if their still together why give a damn about me or how my life is going way I look at it ..if i was him I'd be the last person I'd talk too. sorry for the bad typing and thanks for reading
mikejc Posted November 27, 2008 Posted November 27, 2008 mate, I think you need to keep well away from them both, theres just no upside for "you" in hearing all that and complicating your mind. Leave them to play their little games and blow their egos etc but just think of your self, and if you dont gain anything, then just go NC with them. People who have to brag/skite or blabber out any old ****e to the detrement of others, are left totally impotent when the other no longer listens or cares. Good luck, sounds like nobodies thinking of your feelings.
Author Teuen101 Posted November 28, 2008 Author Posted November 28, 2008 Oh I plan on it - just found it odd he wants to be friends with me out of the blue- makes me think things arnt working out for them- but really who cares- she went right from me to him with in one week- wich means she had it planed out all along- I kinda knew and called her on it but she cried and said how it wasnt so ! lol.. what a lier- but I'm done with it like I told him..." I think they are perfect for one anotheir so god bless !
mikejc Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 one way or another, fro her to "jump" liek that, she was doing same my ex did. being emotionally dishonest with you and playing her options. then simply jumping and discarding the old ship. Mine comes back now with the i'm so confused, dont knwo what im doing but im trapped here now with the ney guy. Total crap. I keep breaking NC liek an idiot but liek you, need to decid efinally NC is teh way to leave behind these people.
Gremio Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Oh I plan on it - just found it odd he wants to be friends with me out of the blue- makes me think things arnt working out for them- but really who cares- she went right from me to him with in one week- wich means she had it planed out all along- I kinda knew and called her on it but she cried and said how it wasnt so ! lol.. what a lier- but I'm done with it like I told him..." I think they are perfect for one anotheir so god bless ! Perhaps he realized he was as jackass and is trying to seek your guidance since they are rocky. Who would know best but her most recent ex? I think all of it's a huge joke. The guy must be a child.
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