which trait is the greater turn off?

[LittleDove]

Nope, Aiden was TOO nice. Yuk. I liked his character in northern exposure more, quirky bad boy..

 

Good old Russel...Maximus can leap through time into my bedroom !! that voice- oh my!! but ONLY maximus. I dont find Russ that good looking usually.

George Cloony is too old, and never really took my interest..

Im loving Brad Pitt in fight club...wow.

 

Now heres the craziest tv/movie star crush ever.....Jonny knoxville!!!

Hes crazy, i love it when he laughs, so hot(i do not know why...)...and the aviators!!! I like Bam too...something about jackazz.

 

I know...

[kashmir]

Nope, Aiden was TOO nice. Yuk. I liked his character in northern exposure more, quirky bad boy..

 

Good old Russel...Maximus can leap through time into my bedroom !! that voice- oh my!! but ONLY maximus. I dont find Russ that good looking usually.

George Cloony is too old, and never really took my interest..

Im loving Brad Pitt in fight club...wow.

 

Now heres the craziest tv/movie star crush ever.....Jonny knoxville!!!

Hes crazy, i love it when he laughs, so hot(i do not know why...)...and the aviators!!! I like Bam too...something about jackazz.

 

I know...

 

Lol, I've been doing stupid crap like in jackass for years. And all this time I thought it was just making me look like an idiot in front of girls.

 

People make fun of me because I think Bjork is the hottest thing ever. Female singers generally bore me. They all sound the same to me, except for her and a few select others. Her eccentricity, sexy voice, and exotic look does it for me.

[Cat66]

Both are a turn off for me. Yet I think it is far more complex than the question presented.

 

There are many men who may be insecure that know how to keep it under wraps, and comes off as humble while someone who is arrogant trying to come off as too cool is even more insecure than the initial guy and because of his inability to cope he comes off as a jerk.