gtppontiac Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 Okay heres the situation (fyi i have a nothe rpost on here) we are kinda friends (im 34 shes 27). A little background we have never hung out but talk frequently as shes my bartender and i see her weekly. We mainly talk about BS type stuff but have talked a little more in depth here and there so i know a little of here backgound. I think theres a possibility she could be interested but i am also unsure because of her position as a bartender if you know what i mean, but then again she always hugs me at the end of the night. Anyway she recently broke up with her cheating BF of over 1 year and took it really hard, this was 3 weeks ago anyway i gave it a couple of weeks and last sat. i decided that time was of an essence and didn't want to hold out to long, so I told her That i Thought she was amazing and gave her my number and told her to call me sometime and maybe we could do lunch. Anyway I Havn't heard from her and don't know what to do when i see her again. Maybe it was to early may be it was a lame way of showing my interest I don't know. I all i know is that I really like this girl and don't want to screw up any more than i may have already. So waht do you all think my best course of action is? I know that i can't avoid her and will go up and talk to her but should i say something about my actions last week? Should i bring it up at all? Any advice is welcome
sscutie Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 i think you should just resume talking to her in the same manner... maybe you could slip in the thing in your head by making a joke about it... Just dont be awkward around her or else the oppurtunity might lose itself forever
amaysngrace Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 That is a lame approach in my opinion. Telling a girl to give you a call is presumptuous and ungentlemanly. Next time ask for her number, okay? Then it will be her choice to give it to you or not. And it will be up to you to make the call if she does. I guess if I were you I'd apologize for being presumptuous and ungentlemanly. The last thing she needs is another jerk to get involved with so be different than a jerk. Sure it takes more effort to be the nice guy but nice girls really do want nice guys. Especially if all they are used to is jerks.
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