lsamc Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 2 years ago, I had a classmate and sometimes while taking the bus home, we would bump into each other and say "hi". However, this happened only like once in a month and we didn't talk much so we still remained acquaintances after 1 year. But starting from early this year, she would ask me to take the bus home with her, in an indirect way, saying something like "Hey are you going home later?". Most of the times I would say "Yes" but once in a while I told her I was busy after school. Our friendship progressed and we made real conversations, joking, laughing, arguing about trivial stuff, and I would ask her to help me with my school work. I developed feelings for her and I think she reciprocated them too. There was one week where everyday she would asked me to take the bus with her, and I really admired her initiative. A few months later, she asked me to take the bus with her again and I decided to look for an opportunity to ask her out, since this was the last day of school and we would probably never meet each other again unless I asked her out. At the bus stop, she thought her female friend called her so she called back but that female friend said she didnt call. I decided to tease her and said that there's this ghost lingering around in bus stops who would make random calls using someone's phone. That really spooked her at first but she later realised I was just joking. A few seconds later, she told me she wanted to go out during the weekends and I thought THIS was the PERFECT CHANCE to ask her to watch a ghost movie with me. So I casually said "Do you want to watch [Name of ghost movie] with me?" She replied "with YOU???!!!" I took it as a rejection and laughed it away saying "Ha since ur so sacred of ghosts, must train you to be less afraid!" -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Now, school has ended and we would not see each other again, unless we meet up. I wanted to ask her again, in a more serious way. I am currently in a dilemma. I have not fallen into "FRIENDZONE" yet because a few weeks ago she still showed some romantic interest. I can only think of 3 options now : -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Option A Send messages to her and chat with her on the phone. Problem : Previously, I would only message her to ask chemistry questions. And since the examinations have ended, I can no longer do so. I am very sure that if I were to suddenly chat about other things with her,it will show her that I am a clingy guy and that I cannot live without her. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Option B Message her to go out with me Problem : I think this seems to make me a desperate guy so I am having second thoughts. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Option C Wait for her to take the initiative again Problem : I doubt she will do so, now that school has ended and we no longer take the bus home --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I have 3 questions for you. 1) Which option do you recommend I take and why? Or do you have a better option? 2) When a girl asks "Do you think ur handsome", what should you say? 3) When a girl asks "Do you think Im fat?", what should you say? Thank you for your time
oceangrl Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 1) Option B. I remember a guy I met from class a few years ago that kept calling me over and over without any purpose (oh, and I met him in chemistry too). I just wanted him to ask me out and he didnt. I think he was waiting for me to take initiative but I'm not that type. So eventually, I stopped answering his calls because I didn't think he would ever ask me out. You remind me of that guy! 2) Say, "Yes, I do" in a really deep voice like you're trying to joke about it while flexing your arms. Make her laugh about it, and laugh with her. 3) Theres never a right answer to this question!!
Green Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 yeah you screwed up I mean waiting till the last day of class to try anything and letting yourself get rejected in such a confusing way that your not even sure if you got rejected. Look dude you should just go find another girl... its really lame to txt a girl who you've only asked homework questions too its alot more effective to ask them out in person. But if you really don't think you'll ever see her again in person then go ahead and take the shot in hell of sending the txt...(way better to do it in person)
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