juliemanooli Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 So it has been exactly 2 weeks and 2 days since i've gone NC with my ex. Its difficult, considering the fact that we go to school toghether.. its almost impossible to avoid him. Well, today there was a basketball game between my school and the other school in which all my friends go to. I decided to go, even though i knew i would be there, since he's on the team. (I wasnt going to let him ruin my fun). Well, I got there and saw his entire family. Even his sister who lived 5 hours away. I couldnt even say hi to them.. It was so akward. Well, his game ended and he went back to sit on the stands with his family to watch the varsity game. His friend parker, who was sitting with him texted me and said "hey come find me and mike(my ex)" and i said, "okay where are you?" which was a complete lie because i knew where they were sitting He replies with a "Nevermind, I'll just see you tomorrow. Mike is being insecure". I didnt understand that. so i asked, "what the heck. Why?" and Parker answered, "Idk, you guys dont care for eachother anymore" and i never answered back... 2 weeks ago i told michael i couldnt be friends with him because it was too difficult, considering that i wasnt over him at all. That was the last time we talked. On the same day of the game, he found out that i was starting to talk to someone new. Is that why he's being so weird? ughhhhhh. tell me why he's being so weird.
UnamedSeven Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 Well, he may still be in a state of disbelief and doesn't want to be apart of your life, while another part of him, does. He isn't completely over you, and doesn't know what to do. The whole text message thing, it was obvious that he had several doubts about having Parker text you. He probably still wants to be friends, but realizes he cant because of what you told him. Not to mention, but he doesn't want to know you anymore, if your starting to like someone else. Believe me, i think just like him.
Author juliemanooli Posted November 25, 2008 Author Posted November 25, 2008 But the thing is, he was the one who broke up with me! I just dont get it.
UnamedSeven Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 He may have realized that breaking up with you, was a mistake. Or, it could be that he just doesn't know what he wants. I say, just ignore him, unless you absolutly can not. If he broke up with you, then it isn't fair for him to act the way he is right now.
IcemanJB Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 I can see where he's coming from. He isn't sure of what he wants. I suggest still not talking to him for awhile so he can figure out what he wants.
Author juliemanooli Posted November 25, 2008 Author Posted November 25, 2008 you guys are absolutely right. Should I avoid even passing him, or seeing him for that matter?
UnamedSeven Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 Yeah. Only until you feel its right to talk to him again. Which could be a few days, weeks, minths, or years... its just up to time.
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