freckles3131 Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 I'm 42 he's 32. I look really great for my age. Still get flirted with, compliments etc..But, how does one hold one's head up in a secure manner when there is a hot 18 year old flirting etc..with my guy?? The girl in question is a part of a local club(mostly men/like a rod and gun club type thing) she is the treasurer. She is very, very flirty. Esp. if the other guys feed her a few beers. Clothes get shed and dancing all hot and flirty (at functions) All the men gawk at her. My b.f. shows some element of restraint compared to them and does show me respect but his body language says, he thinks she is hot too. (understandable) but she is all chummy with him and will on occasion, text message him and try to hang out with him and the guys when they are out. Sometimes she will call with "club" questions. It's not often but she is at every monthly meeting, and it just bugs me that they are "friends" when she does seem to be attracted to him. I understand the men like to look at young, pretty things, but how do I keep my cool about it all and not be jealous/insecure. Hard not to when I'm 42 and she is hot/young and 18. thoughts??
Lizzie60 Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 Well.. I say.. that.. if your guy, who is 32, is attracted to an 18 yr old.. chances are it won't go too far with you... My last 'date' was 20 yrs younger.. he wasn't even looking at younger woman.. he hates them.. he prefers older woman, always has.. so IMO.. if a guy is attracted to much younger women.. you have slim chances to keep him.. it's already hard for any women to keep their man (even same age) for a long time..
Author freckles3131 Posted November 25, 2008 Author Posted November 25, 2008 He has said to me he could never date someone that age or like that. He said she is just like "one of the guys" cuz they all talk shop. I am 42 and find some 20-30 yr old guys physically attractive, doesn't mean I would be interested in dating them. my bf has only dated older woman in the past 9 yrs...
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