isn700 Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 We were NC for 12 days until yesterday? Here is our conversation. Any opinions? Coversation: I called, and we chit chatted a bit. I asked her about us meeting and then she snapped. She said several times she does not want to come back to town, which means to me as well. She said her life is good now, and for the first time in her life the way she wants it to be. I told her that is fine, but she should give us a chance. Her response "yeah but I dont want to come back". At this point I am holding back tears. I tried to be strong. Then she said, she might come to town with her parents (shes living with them), and I said that is not needed because it is only about you and me. Then I said I will come into her town tommorow and she can meet me if she would like to. Heres the weird thing, she actually considered it, and said she needs to talk to her parents...(grrrrr).... So she calls me back and says that tommorow will not work, they all are too busy, for a family function. So then my brother talks to her. He has been helpful before and has always been straight up with her. He asked her if she is just leading me by a string, just to dump me. I asked her this to, and she says no. But her actions show otherwise. Over the last two months she has said she does miss me and was hot and cold on the phone. My brother said to her "if you are doing this, then that is very selfish of you". She said her school is taking her 100% percent right now, and she has three weeks left. It is because of school that she is able to put us on the back burner. She tried telling him that she wants this to work, but then my bro called her out on that. He said that she wont even talk to me or agree to a meeting. (she couldnt respond). She said that if I want an answer now, then it is a NO. She was quite cocky in that response. So she said in three weeks she will contact me, I asked for what, and she could not answer that. She did say, at that time she can think properly about it. In the beginning of the coversation she said something that was weird: "the last while I have been thinking about you a lot"....i asked her if their were good thoughts or bad thoughts, and she said niether, she wasnt thinking about anything specific. What does that mean?
Geishawhelk Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 It means she wants you to leave her alone, stop pestering her, accept you two are over, move on, and don't contact her any more unless it's to discuss the divorce/separation/division of assets. You have got to get a grip and let this one go.
Recommended Posts