Lonelystar Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 I am writing here to let everyone know that time does heal most wounds. I was skeptical of this every happening, but it does really work. It is a break though- i don't feel like I am hitting the wall anymore. Yesterday, I had a dream where I told my ex "It is okay we aren't together, I know I will find someone who loves me"...and waking up this morning I feel so much better. Don't get me wrong, I know I still have plenty of healing to do, and I know there will be bad days ahead, but I am healing. I think we all need to realize that we deserved to be loved the way we want. Our exes are not necessarily cold hearted and malicious, but maybe they realized that the fit was just not working. Even though most of us want our exes back, why be with someone who doesn't feel the same way? I hope one day I can look back at memories my ex and I made, and just be happy for the good times we had. I want to be able to thank him for loving me so long, and allowing me to experience such a strong emotion. If he doesn't want me anymore it is okay. I know there is someone out there who does, and we might be a better fit. That goes for all of you, let yourselves heal. In the end we will come out stronger and more aware of what we want. We deserve to be happy, and to love again. Writing in this forum really helps, and I am so thankful for it. I will back here, I am sure. I know I will cry again, and miss him. A part of me will always belong to me, but only a part. I have whole lot more left, and I can't wait to give it someone who wants me just as much. I hope this wasn't to preachy, but I just wanted to thank everyone who posted stories and those who commented on mine. You guys have all helped me heal, and I am very thankful. We are awesome, and we deserve people who think we are!
Vince Black Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 you sound well on the right road to me....good luck and keep your head up!!!!
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