JerryG Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 Hello everyone, I'd just like some opinions on some events which have transpired in my life the last few weeks. Basically a friend (girl) recently came back in my life. Almost 2 years we had what I will call an intense friendship - both liked each other, and although we fooled around we never ended up sleeping together. Before that we were friends for 2 years. Eventually she called this off and I was cool with being friends. She eventually met someone new who ended up really hurting her in the end by cheating on her. Around a year ago our friendship kind of went into "stall" mode - I was busy with school and kind of angry at her and we didn't see each other again until a few weeks ago at a mutual friends birthday. After speaking with her for a bit I realized I missed having her as a friend and by that time I was tired of hanging onto the anger. So, feeling more confident then I was years ago, I invited her out to one of my friends birthday and we ended up hitting it off, having a good time. It was nice catching up - I ended up dancing with her all night, and at the end of the night I held her hand and kissed her on the cheek goodnight. Now, the attitude I'm going with now is to just see how things go. I honestly wouldn't mind having her as just a friend, but I'd like to see if there is a spark again. The question I have is - did I move too fast here? Should I have waited to re-establishing a friendship first? Plus, I don't even know if she is seeing anyone right now and I'm the kind of guy which usually respects boundaries when people are in relationships. I do plan on asking her out again soon. Thanks
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