theprototype Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 I have known this girl since the beginning of the year (i'm a freshman in high school so our schools just pooled together and i just met her). In fact, i met her the very first period because i have her in HR. So, I guess you could say we see each other a lot because our lockers are also close together. For about the past month, we have started liking eadch other and now i like her a lot. Last tuesday, I asked her out on the phone and she said yes. The problem is that now, its been kind of awkward since we go out. It seems that all we do now is text each other, talk on the phone occasionally, kiss after school, see her sometimes outside of school, and almost every time see each other while passing through classes. The problem is... ...I can never think of anything to say to her except, "what class do you have next?" and then hold a short conversation about that class... Does anyone have any ideas on what to say to keep it interesting? After all, how many times can i ask what class she has, eventually shell think i have i have a memory problem...haha. This would be very much appreciated thanks.
PrincessPeach Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 What do you talk about with your friends? Whatever you talk about with your friends is more than likely fine to talk about with girls too. Talk about whatever you want to talk about. Talk about your hobbies or interests. Talk about a tv show you watch or a book you read. She didn't even have to of seen or read it. Ultimately it doesn't really matter what you talk about. You can talk with your girlfriend about all the same things you talk about with everyone else.
alphamale Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 Does anyone have any ideas on what to say to keep it interesting? After all, how many times can i ask what class she has, eventually shell think i have i have a memory problem...haha. This would be very much appreciated thanks. look around and observe...there are hundreds of things to talk about. here is a short list: her clothes/shoespeople around youthe weatherher jewelrythe teacher that just walked past you that everyone hateswhats for lunchthe latest album by guns 'n rosesthe cool internet site you were lookin' at last nitehow you hate your parent(s) and think you're smarter than themsomething silly your sibling did recentlyher opinion on the 2nd Citigroup bailout of $20billion todaywill Obama do ok?what are we doing this weekend?
Author theprototype Posted November 24, 2008 Author Posted November 24, 2008 thanks for all of the ideas. But, when i am actually talking to her, i cant think of anything to say, even when i look around and see something to talk about. Sometimes i think that if i say something she will think its stupid. but then other times i think that i should say ANYTHING just to keep the conversation going even if its a sighing, "yeaaaaaa..." but im not sure what the median of these two is. Thanks.
PrincessPeach Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 Try not to be concerned about whether or not she thinks what you say will be stupid. What you say will be fine. Trust me. Don't worry about it. Try not to think so much about it, relax and just try to have some fun.
Author theprototype Posted November 25, 2008 Author Posted November 25, 2008 ok this is a little off topic. but how do u like incorporate ur family with a new girlfriend if ur only a freshman in high school...also her birthday is soon and what should i get her??jewelry?? add a card???
PrincessPeach Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 Don't incorporate family with a new girlfriend. Wait a while. She might feel uncomfortable or scared meeting your family soon into a relationship. If it's her birthday soon, don't go overboard. You haven't been going out very long so don;t get her something too serious like jewelry, especially if you don't know her tastes in jewelry. Get her a card and something smallish. A stuffed animal maybe. Make whatever it is thoughtful, that's what matters. Write something in the card other than what's already there, but not overly mushy, it helps make it personal and she'll like that you took the time and thought to write someting.
Perry Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 What do you talk about with your friends? Whatever you talk about with your friends is more than likely fine to talk about with girls too. Talk about whatever you want to talk about. Talk about your hobbies or interests. Talk about a tv show you watch or a book you read. She didn't even have to of seen or read it. Ultimately it doesn't really matter what you talk about. You can talk with your girlfriend about all the same things you talk about with everyone else. Wasn't that enough good advice for you?
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