ad122 Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 My new boyfriend and I have been together for one month, so it's very new. It's going really well and we both feel really happy and excited, even making possible future plans to move overseas next year together. We are both in our 30's and he has made it clear to me that its the right time in his lives for a serious relationship and that's what he's looking for. Thing is I wish that we were spending Christmas together but it doesn't look like it will happen. My boyfriend asked me on the weekend what I was doing for Christmas out of interest but didn't invite me to spend it with him. He has his family around to spend it with but mine live far overseas and without him I will just have a quiet "orphans" Christmas with a couple of friends in the same or a similar situation so I feel even more that I wish we were together on the day. I guess its just too soon in the dating relationship for him to introduce me to his family, deep down I feel a little hurt about that given how he has said he feels about me and where the relationship is going... Thoughts anyone?
zicke Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 Yeah, I think you need to chill out. You've known him for 1 month. I've been with my guy 6 months and I am not spending xmas with him. (My idea--too much pressure) Just go with the flow and enjoy the holidays with your friends. If he invites you, he invites you. Why not just date him for now and stop trying to predict the future?
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