dabears Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 Hello all, I would appreciate any feedback! I have been hanging out with this girl for a few months now. We have gotten along great!..After the the first couple months I asked her about taking what we have to the next level. Just see where it goes. She told me that she is not wanting to start any kind of commitment until she moves out on her own and away from her parents. I guess i get a little down that she does not want to be with me, because I think if both people liked each other enough, they would try it out and see what could happen. I have so many times wanted to tell her that I just cant deal with this anymore, I have given more feelings to her than I feel like i have received. Granted I know living at home, does not make everything that easy. She does call me everyday, most of the time we talk when she gets home from work, and then she will call before she goes to bed. We hang out about 3-4 times a week at her place, go out to eat, movies, dinner, etc...And it seems like everytime we drink, when we get back our situation gets brought up, such as what are we, what should we do, she says that I am not wasting my time with her. When we were at a bar, she got mad at me, because she said I was trying to make her jealous(which I was not), because I was talking with my old high school friends that happened to be girls.. She knows I like her, and she says it back, but it is so frustrating to give my feelings and not know why she doesnt seem to commit. I guess she would not call or hang out if she didnt like me. I am a patient guy but I can only wait so long!.. She also tells me that she has no interest in anyone else, and gets upset when i bring that up, but i cant help it because to me that is a good reason not to commit.
whichwayisup Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 All you can do is back off and let her ask you out when she's really ready for a relationship. That is, unless she has a boyfriend.
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