2sunny Posted November 27, 2008 Posted November 27, 2008 i wish it didn't have to be this way for you WS. his ACTIONS are showing his selfish nature and that makes me very sad for you. even if you wanted it to work out at this point the sheer fact that this is the core of his character is disappointing at best. it may be all he knows or as much as he can offer right now. move through your weekend with the happiness that you deserve and enjoy the company of others... the ones that care about you and love you. most of all - take the time to love yourself along the way.
jj33 Posted November 28, 2008 Posted November 28, 2008 Hi WS. I hope you had a wonderful Tday and are feeling less stressed. Enjoy your lunch today. jj
GreenEyedLady Posted November 28, 2008 Posted November 28, 2008 WS: I'm sorry to hear about what he did. Go out, stay busy and don't think about him. Often men who cheat are horrible at communicating. He was too weak to face you and tell you the truth. He's not worth your time. Don't pick up when he calls. He is acting so junior high.
NoIDidn't Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 WS I was hoping that things wouldn't turn out this way for you with him being out of the picture over the holidays. He really is a waste of oxygen, it seems. I'm sorry. I hope you enjoyed dinner yesterday, at least.
Author wildsoul Posted November 29, 2008 Author Posted November 29, 2008 Thanks everyone. I'm just trying to get through one day at a time. Did my best to socialize yesterday and today, which helped. Now, I'm home alone and the lonely clock is starting to tick really slow. I'm on "abandonment time," or withdrawals, whatever you want to call it. We used to spend Fri-Mon together pretty much and had our couple routines. I really miss the affection desperately! But he went too far and made no attempt to apologize or even acknowledge what he did. Totally abandoned me over the holiday. It hurts that he didn't try to fix it at all. So I just keep reminding myself that even though I'm sad right now, it's better than being raged at. Thanks again.
Angel1111 Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 Thanks everyone. I'm just trying to get through one day at a time. Did my best to socialize yesterday and today, which helped. Now, I'm home alone and the lonely clock is starting to tick really slow. I'm on "abandonment time," or withdrawals, whatever you want to call it. We used to spend Fri-Mon together pretty much and had our couple routines. I really miss the affection desperately! But he went too far and made no attempt to apologize or even acknowledge what he did. Totally abandoned me over the holiday. It hurts that he didn't try to fix it at all. So I just keep reminding myself that even though I'm sad right now, it's better than being raged at. Thanks again. Aw, sweetie, I'm so sorry you're going through this. It just breaks my heart. My thoughts are with you.
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