Engaged, No longer long distance and its not going so well..

[ohhmyandrea]

My fiance and I met June of this year.

We clicked so fantastically, I understood him and he understood me.

Fall came around and he went off to school two states away.

 

A couple months and two visits later, I decided I had nothing really keeping me from moving to the city he lives in now.

 

Well, Ive been here for about three weeks.

Lately, Im finding it much more difficult to be here. I moved away from everyone I know and care about to be with him. He however is making my move seem like an inconvenience even though he was the one pushing for it.

 

Unfortunately for me, and not so for him, I moved into an apartment with his bestfriend.

 

He spends a good bit of time with his bestfriend and Its not that I mind so much its just that when its just us two he barely has the energy to do much. But as soon as his friend gets home he has all of this energy to get up and do things.

 

I work throughout the week, mostly mornings and the boys seem to throw all respect out the window.

They throw parties until 4 in the morning, knowing I have to work the next day.

 

They dont even try to tone down the noise.

 

 

My fiance doesnt pay rent here and Im starting to wonder if I should just make him go back to campus and stay there for a few days til he can start to appreciate having me here and start respecting that I have certain responsibilities that Id like to be rested for.

 

 

 

Advice?