Mickle Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 My Wife went on a business course for three weeks, the course was held in her home town, which is over a 1000 miles away. I found out from friends and by accident from her sister, that she was regularly seen around the Restaurants and clubs in a group but with her Ex. They lived together for three years before he dumped her and went off to Europe. She told me that her parents never approved of their relationship because he was Black. I have phoned her regularly, but she always makes excuses why she will not talk to me. The last time I phoned her she was panting and said she was going to her sisters and was in a hurry. I said goodbye and she put her phone down and obviously did not turn it off correctly, I then heard what was obviously her kissing and the unmistakable sound of her making love, this continued for a few minutes, with her calling her ex's name. The phone then automatically switched off and I heard no more. She phoned me today telling me her flight details. Do I tell her my suspicions and clearly annoy her, and insinuate that I do not trust her. Keep quite and pretend it never happened.
misternoname Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 You're kidding, right? I'd have her crap sitting on the curb when she got home!
whichwayisup Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 Keep quite and pretend it never happened. NO, you don't keep it quiet! The minute she walks in the door, CONFRONT HER about it! TELL HER you heard her having sex with her ex, that you heard it all!
whichwayisup Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 OK, I went back and re-read afew of your older posts. Your wife has cheated on you before, so this isn't a first for her.. Sorry to say this, but I agree now with misternoname - Pack her stuff up and have it on the front lawn waiting for her, with a note TELLING her not to bother coming into the house. There's no excuse for what she's done to you..Especially since her ex IS a druggie.
Konfuzion Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 OMG stuff waiting for her on the curb for sure.
Bryanp Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 Pretend it didn't happen? This has got to be a joke. If this post is real and you heard your wife making love to another man; how in the world could you ask if you should pretend it did not happen? I suspect this post is not real. If by chance this post is valid then apparently it does not bother you knowing your wife is screwing her ex boyfriend since you seem afraid to confront her. If the roles were reversed, do you honestly think your wife would be asking if she should pretend it didn't happen hearing you screwing another woman? Sorry I don't believe this post is real. Nobody could be that pathetic.
In Like Flynn Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 I would first tell her that for future reference....when you hang the phone on your husband...when having another guy in the room....make sure the phone in hung up properly!!! So I don't have to listen to the two of you having sex!!! And oh by the way you sister told me yoou were with the ex-boyfriend!!!!
In Like Flynn Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 Pretend it didn't happen? This has got to be a joke. If this post is real and you heard your wife making love to another man; how in the world could you ask if you should pretend it did not happen? I suspect this post is not real. If by chance this post is valid then apparently it does not bother you knowing your wife is screwing her ex boyfriend since you seem afraid to confront her. If the roles were reversed, do you honestly think your wife would be asking if she should pretend it didn't happen hearing you screwing another woman? Sorry I don't believe this post is real. Nobody could be that pathetic. Yeah....like I don't want to overreact to what her sister and others are saying and what I heard her doing on the phone!! Let me first post this on a forum to see if I should be a man or not!!!
Reggie Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 Not sure I understand what aroused your suspicions. You are overeacting. Please be open to her explanation.I'm sure it is all just a big mistake.
Dexter Morgan Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 My Wife went on a business course for three weeks, the course was held in her home town, which is over a 1000 miles away. I found out from friends and by accident from her sister, that she was regularly seen around the Restaurants and clubs in a group but with her Ex. If she was with her X and didn't tell you, then you have cause to be suspicious. Now if she had dinner one night with her X and that was that, then maybe it wouldn't be such a big deal. But she was see "regularly" with him? Inappropriate, hands down. They lived together for three years before he dumped her and went off to Europe. She told me that her parents never approved of their relationship because he was Black. I have phoned her regularly, but she always makes excuses why she will not talk to me. Probably because she was in her hotel room, or she was with him. The last time I phoned her she was panting and said she was going to her sisters and was in a hurry. Being in a hurry doesn't make you pant unless you are 100 pounds overweight. I said goodbye and she put her phone down and obviously did not turn it off correctly, I then heard what was obviously her kissing and the unmistakable sound of her making love, this continued for a few minutes, with her calling her ex's name. While this isn't hard and fast proof, my gut tells me she was cheating. The phone then automatically switched off and I heard no more. She phoned me today telling me her flight details. Do I tell her my suspicions and clearly annoy her, and insinuate that I do not trust her. If your suspicions annoy her, then she is a piece of s##t that deserves to be divorced. I'd tell her everything I heard on the phone. Watch her waffle for an answer. Tell her that she has been seen with her X numerous times during the trip. Tell her that is unacceptable and that you know in your gut she was cheating on you with him. If she gets insensitive over it and gets "annoyed" or mad, then maybe its time to get a good attorney. Keep quite and pretend it never happened. Only if you want to be a cuckold.
Dexter Morgan Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 OK, I went back and re-read afew of your older posts. Your wife has cheated on you before, so this isn't a first for her... I haven't read his previous posts, but if this is true, then getting a divorce from this tramp is the way to go. That is of course, like I said, he wants to just forget about it so he can maintain a status quo and not rock the boat and ruin a comfortable life.
misternoname Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 I just went back and read some of his other posts...I think we're either having our chains yanked or we're dealing with a good candidate for a MHMR evaluation!
avenger Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Divorce her...... Sounds like my ex lol I left her....
SierraRose Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 I can't even believe you would even take the time out to post. I'd throw her sh*t out the front door and change the locks. Don't even look back.
brothelmaiden Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 "SUSPICIONS"????? After what you heard, you can pretty much know for certain that it is fact. Anyone would be so angry, that they couldn't hold their emotions like that over the phone. This has to be a joke.
jwi71 Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 And if it isnt...the sex couldn't have been good. I mean, who answers the phone during sex? I can see it now: *ring, ring* WS: <reaches over and grabs mobile phone> Hello? Oh hi hon. OM: <slows down his pace, looks well, wounded> WS: Oh...me? I'm not doing anything. How are you? Did you feed the cat? OM: <stops. cries> sheesh.
Athena Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 15 years later She is an Excellent Wife, Great Mother and still a good lover. My Wife and I have been married 3 years, she has two mixed race children, one from a long violent relationship with a Black guy who was a major player in the local drug scene. You contradict yourself by saying you are married 3 years, and married 15 years Sounds very suspect. I only checked up because other posters have expressed the possibility that you are making this all up and it's not a real post... anyway, Perhaps this is all factual but it is confusing all the same:confused:But -- if by any chance you really are in a real marriage, with a real wife, who is really screwing around AGAIN, then you definitely need to have her stuff on the curb when she returns. Don't pick her up from the airport, and DON'T BOTHER TRYING TO CONFRONT HER... you already know what you heard! Cheaters deny all to the very end and you will only become doubtful about what you clearly heard, should you give her the chance to convince you! Besides, she has an established pattern of cheating in your marriage. Oh -- and for the poster who suggested that pple cheating don't answer the phone call from their spouse during sex with the other person -- I beg to differ! Sometimes they DO!
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