esther0123 Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 Well, here's the situation. I went on a casual "get-to-know" pseudo-date with a guy (not sure if I should even call it a date since I was treating him exactly like I would treat any friend, which made me alot more comfortable..). Throughout, we both laughed alot, he asked ALOT of questions about me, what I do, etc, and seems to be interested. I think both of us opened up a little bit (I'm hoping I didnt talk too much ah!) and we talked a little about ex relationships, made fun of them a little bit, and so on. Throughout the night, he asked me, not once, but a few times when I was free, and that we should hang out again etc. Finally, when he cut the date short (which I thought was weird.. but it was late at night..), he asked me when I was free and when I said wed, he told me he would call me on wed. And guess what, no call! Well, Ive been very irked about this, so on saturday (3 days after wednesday he was supposed to call) I sent him a casual text message something along the lines of "hey buddy! when do I get to see that photography? (he was telling me how he should show me this particular piece)" And yet, no answer! So my question is, do men go through all that question about when are you free, etc etc, "just to be nice"? I would understand "let's do this again" or "ill keep in touch" turning into no call.. but he seemed very eager (even if he cut the hangout short.. hmm.. which makes me wonder) And was my response appropriate? I hope I didn't come off needy. It just irks me when this happens!! ah!!
sultry33 Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 just a weird guy... dont chase just move on some people can never be understood im guessing this is one of them;)
Love_Forest Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 where di you meet him? if it is on dating site i know from my friends that people get many emails at once and they date in series all the people from there and some times they ask you again after some times . my friend told to me they were asking again after 2 mo when they told that were trying another persons and did not go anywhere.... so it depends on circumstance.....
movingonandon Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 Well, here's the situation. I went on a casual "get-to-know" pseudo-date with a guy (not sure if I should even call it a date since I was treating him exactly like I would treat any friend, which made me alot more comfortable..). Throughout, we both laughed alot, he asked ALOT of questions about me, what I do, etc, and seems to be interested. I think both of us opened up a little bit (I'm hoping I didnt talk too much ah!) and we talked a little about ex relationships, made fun of them a little bit, and so on. Throughout the night, he asked me, not once, but a few times when I was free, and that we should hang out again etc. Finally, when he cut the date short (which I thought was weird.. but it was late at night..), he asked me when I was free and when I said wed, he told me he would call me on wed. And guess what, no call! Well, Ive been very irked about this, so on saturday (3 days after wednesday he was supposed to call) I sent him a casual text message something along the lines of "hey buddy! when do I get to see that photography? (he was telling me how he should show me this particular piece)" And yet, no answer! So my question is, do men go through all that question about when are you free, etc etc, "just to be nice"? I would understand "let's do this again" or "ill keep in touch" turning into no call.. but he seemed very eager (even if he cut the hangout short.. hmm.. which makes me wonder) And was my response appropriate? I hope I didn't come off needy. It just irks me when this happens!! ah!! your response is fine; also, asking are you free later on does not necessarily mean he has an actual date plan in mind, just keeps (and awkward) conversation going, no biggie. many guys are aware that girls don't like pressure and will rarely make actual plan for a second date during the first date. the fact that he did not call is annoying, but at this point you can't really expect anything; if he doesn't respond to your message though, then it's time to move on... m2c
edinsvet Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 He is not that into you. He should be doing the chasing, not you.
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