Lucky555 Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 when i gave him my number at the end of the night he never gave me his. He also asked if i got home safely via myspace...I would think he would have texted my CELL PHONE to see if i had got home since it was night. It seemed odd that he didn't reciprocate these things. I think if he truly wanted to continue this he would have done the above two things. HE was a great date though....but he may have been just looking to get laid by doing all the right things. he "acted" like he cared too. He mentioned this too....about something we were talking about. "i'll go for whatever i can get" all the guys that have said this in my lifetime have always been users and losers. At the end of the night after kissing he says..maybe we can meet up and finish what we started. (finish what we started?)What does this mean? Throughout the night he had 7 beers! I was really hoping this was going to be something great. but look at all the stuff on our first date. I think deep down i wanted this to work..its not till now i really think about it. Out to the dating world again i suppose.
marlynshopgrl Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 Ok, I think I am a little lost. When did this date occur? After the date HE asked if you got home ok? That wasn’t bad, and remember YOU are not him, so for you to say he should've, could've is not fair. What were you talking about when he said "I'll go for whatever I can get" ? And finally, he's statement of "maybe we can meet up and finish what we started", not that I personally didn’t like. I would have taken that as probably you did, that you can meet up and have had sexual relations, but without you actually saying "WHAT?" we won’t know. I personally don’t like to assume anything. If this was ONE date, of course you haven’t stopped fishing (if it was only that easy!)(smiling)
Author Lucky555 Posted November 23, 2008 Author Posted November 23, 2008 this occurred last night. what about the phone number thing doesn't that seem weird? in the context of "whatever i can get" it was during a game. . it just reminded me of past guys, who use those terms. "maybe we can meet up and finish what we started" yeah i won't ever know what he was talking about but it was during kissing...so i'm thinking sexual relations.(remember he had about 7 beers, but back at a friends place he had more to drink) maybe i shouldn't take it too seriously. He is only visiting this area for a short time. Otherwise i take it as this because i don't see it having any other meaning. He also didn't mention any future dates..hes from another area. I have seen people who want to continue seeing others date long distance if its "right for them" I don't have my heart set on this guy but i don't think i should determine something in my mind. SO just let things be maybe?
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