mariarose1968 Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 hi everyone just thought i would call in to give u all an update.well things are alot better,see him 5-6 days a week,takes me out nearly every day and we are as close as could be sou8l mates u could say.when he is there he texts me all the time things are really good.but he is still there living in that house does my head in.he says to me when he is ready he will leave but can i trust that after before.im sorry folks just having a moan.
Geishawhelk Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 You're being very silly and just prolonging the agony. This really is going nowhere. Unless you can get some definitive response or commitment from him, he's just keeping you as a convenience. For goodness' sake! I'm really sorry to sound so harsh, but this is not the way forward. Detaching, severing all ties and moving on, is the way forward.
GreenEyedLady Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 Why do you let him run the R? It's a year later and you're not any closer to having what you need. I understand about venting, but you're not powerless here. Do something about it! YOU have all the power in the R.
Shannon2008 Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 YOU have all the power in the R. It's funny how women forget this and feel powerLess to the MM. It's a horrible feeling.
Author mariarose1968 Posted November 24, 2008 Author Posted November 24, 2008 Why do you let him run the R? It's a year later and you're not any closer to having what you need. I understand about venting, but you're not powerless here. Do something about it! YOU have all the power in the R.[/quo i know what your saying hun thank you for your supportxx
Author mariarose1968 Posted November 24, 2008 Author Posted November 24, 2008 You're being very silly and just prolonging the agony. This really is going nowhere. Unless you can get some definitive response or commitment from him, he's just keeping you as a convenience. For goodness' sake! I'm really sorry to sound so harsh, but this is not the way forward. Detaching, severing all ties and moving on, is the way forward.its strange how things happen,i read your reply yesturday and today he started to make plans with me ,we hwill have to see what happensx
Author mariarose1968 Posted November 24, 2008 Author Posted November 24, 2008 It's funny how women forget this and feel powerLess to the MM. It's a horrible feeling.i sat and thought about this today and i must admit i did feel powerless before but i dont now.thank u all u ladies for your supportxx:)
Owl Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 He's not making plans to be with you. He's just TELLING you that he's making plans. Its all WORDS. Actions are what you need. When are you going to set a boundary here? How long will you tolerate this?
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