Mushroom Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 I met a girl a long time ago (like over 2 years) for only or 10 mins thru someone else. I made her laugh and found her attractive but that was it. I saw her like 3 months ago at a bar we just made eye contact and that was it. I didn't talk to her at all. A couple days ago she added me on facebook. We share mutual friends since we went to the same high school but its not like we know each other except for meeting over 2 years ago. Should I take this as a sign she's interested or thinks I'm attractive or something else? Any insight would be awesome.
shockandawed Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 I think the only sign it gives is she doesn't think you are a freak..lol. As far as if she is just being friendly or is interested, only time will tell. I would send her a thank you message for adding you and start communicating with her. If you are interested in her, make a move and get the ball rolling. Good Luck!
Isolde Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 It's a minor but good sign. I personally wouldn't do this after so long unless I liked the guy. It's not like you were ever close friends to give her any other reason to friend you. I'd message her immediately.
MN randomguy Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 I met a girl a long time ago (like over 2 years) for only or 10 mins thru someone else. I made her laugh and found her attractive but that was it. I saw her like 3 months ago at a bar we just made eye contact and that was it. I didn't talk to her at all. A couple days ago she added me on facebook. We share mutual friends since we went to the same high school but its not like we know each other except for meeting over 2 years ago. Should I take this as a sign she's interested or thinks I'm attractive or something else? Any insight would be awesome. Well, in order to find you she: A. Remembers you. How many people do you remember that you've only talked to for 10 minutes 2 years ago? B. Bothered to find and friend you. Maybe some people like to have as many friends as possible. I personally don't go out looking to friend people I barely know for no reason. It makes face book cumbersome. If I don't care about the person I don't care about their status updates. My take, you made an impression, she saw you, made eye contact because she likes you. Mentioned you to said mutual friend next time they talked, whatever. Maybe she didn't remember your name. The friend let her know you're available, etc. maybe helped you out a little. Then, she trys to encourage you, initiates contact. Girls are too proud to come out and be all "Oh, I really liked you 2 years ago, wanna go out". They'd rather be pursued. You like her or you wouldn't post here or remember her. Conclusion, give it a shot. She really digs you. If I'm right, you live happily ever after and us poor saps never hear from you again . If I'm wrong de-friend her and forget the whole thing ever happened.
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