windows Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 If I didn't think so much; then sure I'd go right ahead and ask out that girl in my high school class. Thinking takes away the spontaneity of the moment. Tch; I have it in my mind to ask out this girl by the 1st of December or else give on in girls during High School full stop. It's either her or no one right now and I don't want to lost this chance at even knowing what a relationship is like. There's every reason for her to say no but isn't there always the slightest possibility she'd say yes? As far as I know; the only way for me to even have a chance is to be confident and be myself as I go to ask her. Frick. Sorry about my rant but there's my problem. I'm going to overthink it; chicken out or go through with it and be rejected for being so unconfident since I'm overthinking it. This girl's been in the majority of my classes this year and frankly I've really grown to like her. We talk; share one laugh or two but the most I've had the guts to try to tell her how I felt was; "Your hair looks nice when it's like that". Yeah; pathetic right? I mean; she's already said 'no' to going to the school formal with me but then told me to be 'more confident'. So I figured; give it one shot at a real relationship with her before tying up my life chapter of High School Crushes. (I highly doubt I'd like anyone in my school after her; the only other girl has come and gone) Its the same girl in this thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t170338/ But now; I either go ahead and ask her out by the 1st of December (my brain has it fixated on that date, dunno why) or... I don't want to think about the alternative of a insecure adulthood unable to have the courage to ask a girl out. So... my friend tells me to just "Do it! You can't make her say yes but you can only ask her. You can't force her to but you can offer her a chance to." What's wrong with me? How do I do it? Spontaneously? Impulsively? How do I do it without thinking about it?
MN randomguy Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 If you talk to her a lot you should be able to find a way to do it spontaneously. I don't know your exact relationship. Listen to your friend. He seems to have good advice so far.
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