John32 Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 On the 2nd date I had this past tuesday, this is what happened She was very impressed with the Italian restarunt I chose and said-"this place is beautiful" Toward the end of dinner she put some kind of Lip glause on Then I said I wanted to see her before she went home for Thanksgiving and she said-"how bout next Tuesday" She also called me when got home. I wasn't happy with my performance on date #2 because a had a couple of shy moments but I guess I didn't do that bad because she suggested we see each other again on Tuesday. Also everytime she responds to my emails she askes me how my day was? So I guess I'm nervous because I normally don't reach date #3 with a pretty girl and just want to make sure I keep being myself. My plan for date 3 is to be more flirty more direct eye contact some touching make her laugh
carhill Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 This isn't the med exam girl, is it? Regardless, if you find her attractive, now is the time to kiss her. Make or break. Further, even if she responds aggressively (in a positive way), do not proceed further. Everything in due time If you can't find the "right" moment during the date, do it when saying goodnight. Yes, do all that other stuff during the date.... FWIW, IME, this lady is practically pulling your pants down...don't screw it up
MN randomguy Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 Toward the end of dinner she put some kind of Lip glause on She was thinking about her lips, "are they kissable enough" keep doing what you're doing. Its working. Don't miss another chance for the kiss. Its going to be scary the first time you do it. No way around it. But, being scared can be fun. Like a roller coaster ride.
Green Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 seriously you need to just kiss her already because you may have already screwed this up by not giving her a kiss or atleast trying. If you think your being cool and suave by not kissing your dead wrong your fear of trying to kiss and not touch is going to be exactly what loses her... if she actualy goes out with you on tuesday you better man up
4givrnt4gtr Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 I agree...the whole lipgloss thing....total "arent my lips just delicious?" move....aka "KISS ME!" Come on friend...go for it!
Author John32 Posted November 24, 2008 Author Posted November 24, 2008 This isn't the med exam girl, is it? Regardless, if you find her attractive, now is the time to kiss her. Make or break. Further, even if she responds aggressively (in a positive way), do not proceed further. Everything in due time If you can't find the "right" moment during the date, do it when saying goodnight. Yes, do all that other stuff during the date.... FWIW, IME, this lady is practically pulling your pants down...don't screw it up Yup that's her
belladonna Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 Aww that's sweet. I'd say she's definitely interested. Hold her hand, and making eye-contact really does help. Go for it
Sears Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 On the 2nd date I had this past tuesday, this is what happened She was very impressed with the Italian restarunt I chose and said-"this place is beautiful" Toward the end of dinner she put some kind of Lip glause on Then I said I wanted to see her before she went home for Thanksgiving and she said-"how bout next Tuesday" She also called me when got home. I wasn't happy with my performance on date #2 because a had a couple of shy moments but I guess I didn't do that bad because she suggested we see each other again on Tuesday. Also everytime she responds to my emails she askes me how my day was? So I guess I'm nervous because I normally don't reach date #3 with a pretty girl and just want to make sure I keep being myself. My plan for date 3 is to be more flirty more direct eye contact some touching make her laugh "LIPS When we are aroused (males and females) we get excited and our lips and mouth get dry. That’s why we lick our lips. SO MEN take notice lip licking is a PLUS. It conveys the message very clearly, very sexy and overtly. It is a slow, sultry swipe along the tips of the lips with the tip of the tongue. Another example of this is when females put on lipstick, lip gloss or lick a Popsicle. This is also perceived as “lets go have sex” because of the suggested tongue - lick action. SO females use this with caution to not convey the wrong message."
carhill Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 Yup that's her OK, especially with her, don't dawdle. Most med folks I know are type A's and everything moves at warp speed, including their interest.
amiracle Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 OK, especially with her, don't dawdle. Most med folks I know are type A's and everything moves at warp speed, including their interest. I second that!! Believe me, I know! Speed up the next phase or she will be gone! Thanks Carhill- for reminding me- I almost forgot about that myself.
Author John32 Posted November 26, 2008 Author Posted November 26, 2008 But even though I haven't kissed her yet, I'm still calling her everyday and complimenting and showing that I am Interested. We were supposed to go on our 3rd date last night but she was sick so we just talked on the phone and I called her today before she got on the plane to go home for thanksgiving. So I am doing everything else right just have not gone in for the kiss yet.
carhill Posted November 27, 2008 Posted November 27, 2008 OK, you get a holiday pass Next "date", we're expecting some action.....
motive2002 Posted November 27, 2008 Posted November 27, 2008 Please report back on your date. I'm thinking about the lip gloss now. Can we trade spots for just a little while? Hehe.
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